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43 M Oakland, CA

My Details

Last Online
Aug 29
White, Other
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Strictly vegetarian
Buddhism, and somewhat serious about it
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), Greek (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Recently described as The perfect combination of macho and sweet. That sums it up pretty much.

My favorite soft cheese is Primula and my favorite hard cheese is Halloumi. If you have tried these, would you let me know? I just think cheese compatibility is very important... everything else flows from there... and everything tastes better with cheese, right?:)

More seriously, I strive to live authentically and make the most out of life...

I am warm, idealistic, adventurous, kind and smart. Not bad, ha?:)

I am looking for someone that I can have a connection with, a connection that energizes us both...

Someone who lives in the moment and also has goals for the future. Someone who has time to devote to a "relationship". Someone who is kind and has a big heart.

I don't believe that 1-2 hobbies or answers to Okc questions (which lack context) that one has should be the reason that 2 people do NOT explore a potential connection. (Ie, it's perfectly fine to go duck hunting alone, for example :)-since I am not into duck hunting-in a relationship there is room to do your own thing). However if one's "own thing" takes 90% of their free time then it would not work. But again, in that case one would look for an activity partner not a boyfriend).

Growth is important to me. I am an extrovert but close to the middle of the introvert-extrovert continuum.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am self employed in real estate and property management and also hold a Marriage Family Therapist license and started practicing that. I do other stuff with my life as well :)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Finding my way in new places.
Thinking creatively and quickly
Sensing and intuiting
Not following the beaten path
Restorative yoga
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Depends if I am coming or going...;)
my height, my contagious smile and laughter.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Favorite Musician: Stew - extra points have you heard of him. I prefer melodic music.

Favorite Movies: Matrix, Best in show. Mail order wife, Memento.

Favorite books: "Middlesex", "If the Buddha dated"- highly recommended it.

Authors: Nicole Daedone (author of "Slow sex"- also highly recommended), Robert Johnson (jungian psychologist), Irvin Yallom, Marshall Rosenberg ("Non-violent communications")

TV: Game of Thrones, Scandal, Survivor, Big Bang Theory are top of my list right now. My previous loves include: Rome, Weeds, Sopranos and the X-files.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my iphone (any smart phone will do really)
connecting with people
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What is the balance between action and acceptance.
What are my plans for my next meal :)
How to be more present and less judgmental.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I have A LOT of interests and I will always find something fun for us to do if we want to be out. I like the theater and improv/spoken word shows like GetMortified.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am a little annoyed by the people who do not answer this question on the basis that it is private... well, it says the most private thing that you are WILLING to admit and not already have!
I volunteer for a group that sends books to prisoners.
I am only child.
I am qualified to be in Mensa.
I am working on being more vulnerable.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 31–44
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Nerdy girls especially encouraged to say hello :)
Major bonus points if you are vegetarian and love to cook.
you resonate with this piece