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43 M Emeryville, CA

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Last Online
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White, Other
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Strictly vegetarian
Buddhism, and somewhat serious about it
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), Greek (Fluently)

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My self-summary
My favorite soft cheese is Primula and my favorite hard cheese is Halloumi. If you have tried these, would you let me know? I just think cheese compatibility is very important... everything else flows from there... and everything tastes better with cheese, right?:)

More seriously, I strive to live authentically and make the most out of life...

I am warm, idealistic, adventurous, kind and smart. Not bad, ha?:)

I am looking for someone that I can have a connection with, a connection that energizes us both...

Someone who lives in the moment and also has goals for the future. Someone who has time to devote to a "relationship". Someone who is kind and has a big heart.
Mind you for this to work, the approach we each have to getting to the common goals is an important part of whether something will work out or not. The devil is often in the details.

It's a great goal to be happy and full in your life as you are right now, but there is also such a thing as being too happy and full and not having enough "room" for a partner. I am purposely often a little vague here to cast a wider net but also because I don't believe that 1-2 hobbies that one has should be the reason that 2 people do NOT explore a potential connection. (Ie, it's perfectly fine to go dancing alone-since I am not into dancing-in a relationship there is room to do your own thing). However if one's own thing takes 90% of their free time then it would not work. But again, in that case one would look for an activity partner not a boyfriend).

Growth is important to me. I am an extrovert but close to the middle of the introvert-extrovert continuum.
What I’m doing with my life
I am self employed in real estate and property management and also hold a Marriage Family Therapist license and practice that as well. I do other stuff with my life as well :)
I’m really good at
Finding my way in new places.
Thinking creatively and quickly
Sensing and intuiting
Not following the beaten path
Restorative yoga
The first things people usually notice about me
Depends if I am coming or going...;)
my height, my contagious smile and laughter.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Favorite Musician: Stew - extra points have you heard of him. I like melody.

Favorite Movies: Matrix, Best in show. Mail order Wife, Memento, Source Code.

Favorite books: "Middlesex", "If the Buddha dated"- highly recommended it.

Authors: Nicole Daedone (author of "Slow sex"- also highly recommended).

Robert Johnson (jungian psychologist), Irvin Yallom, Marshall Rosenberg ("Non-violent Communication")

TV: Game of Thrones, Scandal, Survivor, Big Bang Theory are top of my list right now. My previous loves include: Rome, Weeds, Sopranos and the X-files.
The six things I could never do without
my iphone (any smart phone will do really)
connecting with people
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What is the balance between action and acceptance.
What are my plans for my next meal :)
Which group I am going to meditate with tonight :)
On a typical Friday night I am
I have A LOT of interests and I will always find something fun for us to do if we want to be out. Being self-employed has given me a lot of "free" time to do the research. I like the theater and improv/spoken word shows like GetMortified.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
i am a little annoyed by the people who do not answer this question on the basis that it is private... well, it says the most private thing that you are WILLING to admit and not already have..!
I volunteer for a group that sends books to prisoners.
I am only child.
I am qualified to be in Mensa.
I am working on being more vulnerable.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 31–38
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Nerdy girls especially encouraged to say hello :)
Major bonus points if you are vegetarian and love to cook.
you resonate with this piece