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43 Oakland, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 33–41
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 5:59am
Middle Eastern, White, Other
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Buddhism, and somewhat serious about it
Graduated from masters program
Sales / Marketing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), Greek (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Recently described as "the perfect combination of macho and sweet". That sums it up pretty much.

My favorite soft cheese is Primula and my favorite hard cheese is Halloumi. If you have tried these, would you let me know? I just think cheese compatibility is very important... everything else flows from there... and everything tastes better with cheese, right?:)

More seriously, I strive to live authentically and make the most out of life...

I am warm, idealistic, adventurous, kind and smart. Not bad, ha?:)

I am looking for someone that I can have a connection with, a connection that energizes us both...

Someone who lives in the moment and also has goals for the future. Someone who has time to devote to a "relationship". Someone who is kind and has a big heart.

Just because we are not a 97% match does NOT mean we should not explore a potential connection. ie: it's perfectly fine if you like to do your own things! - in a relationship there should be room for that. However if one's "own thing" takes 90% of their free time then it would not work. But again, in that case one would look for an activity partner not a boyfriend. It's all about the quality of the individual and the energetic connection; not the answers to the silly, out of context questions, and one's interests.

Growth is important to me. I am an extrovert but close to the middle of the introvert-extrovert continuum.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am self employed in real estate and property management and as a Marriage and Family Therapist. I do other stuff with my life as well... I am an amateur Vedic astrologer.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Finding my way in new places.
Thinking creatively and quickly
Sensing and intuiting
Not following the beaten path
Restorative yoga
The first things people usually notice about me
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Depends if I am coming or going...;)
my height, my contagious smile and laughter.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Favorite Musician: Stew - extra points have you heard of him. I prefer melodic music.

Favorite Movies: Matrix, Best in show. Mail order wife, Memento.

Favorite books: "Middlesex", "If the Buddha dated"- highly recommended it.

Authors: Nicole Daedone (author of "Slow sex"- also highly recommended), Robert Johnson (jungian psychologist), Irvin Yallom, Marshall Rosenberg ("Non-violent communications")

TV: Game of Thrones, Scandal, Survivor, Big Bang Theory are top of my list right now. My previous loves include: Rome, Weeds, Sopranos and the X-files.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What is the balance between action and acceptance.
What are my plans for my next meal :)
How to be more present.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I have A LOT of interests and I will always find something fun for us to do if we want to be out. I like the theater and improv/spoken word shows like GetMortified.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Why do people not answer this question on the basis that it is private? It says the most private thing that you are WILLING to admit! :)
I volunteer for a group that sends books to prisoners.
I am an only child.
I am qualified to be in Mensa.
I am working on being more vulnerable.
You should message me if
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Nerdy girls especially encouraged to say hello :)
Major bonus points if you are vegetarian and love to cook.
you resonate with this piece