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43 M Ventura, CA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 4:18pm
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Entertainment / Media
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), Japanese (Poorly), German (Okay)

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My self-summary
Can read and write. Well-rounded. Sharp. Sturdy shoulders, good hands. Like fine dining... and spirited slumming. Don't claim to have $8000 rims on my ride. Well-traveled, athletic. Slightly sloppy, but sensitive and observant. Fun in a car. Supportive in a jam. Meditator. #5 bocce player in North America.

Got a fun job that also affords me plenty of leisure.

I am observant, confident, and mellow.
What I’m doing with my life
Splitting my time between L.A. and somewhere a little further north. Working intensely, then taking it very easy (surfing, camping, or putting on a stupid hat and driving around in an old truck) .
I’m really good at
throwing a frisbee
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Salinger, William Goldman, David Sedaris, Larry McMurtry, Roy Blount Jr., Jonathan Lethem.

Sex Lies and Videotape, Tri-Colour, Children of Men, Flirting With Disaster, Searching For Bobby Fisher, My Life as a Dog, Naked

Sherlock (british one), Game of Thrones, Downton Abbey, Girls, Workaholics, Forensic Files, The Office (original British), Survivor.

Arcade Fire, Pixies, Modest Mouse, Miles Davis, Keith Jarrett, King Krule, Animal Collective

artichokes, wasab-peas (?!), kale, steak
The six things I could never do without
chipotles in adobo sauce, surf board, frisbee, a mead composition book, sharpie, electric toothbrush, the main remote control.
On a typical Friday night I am
there is no typical Friday night. I like them though.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
i have trouble saying "Arnold Palmer" when ordering "Anah Pamuhs"
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 28–43
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if

a) like artichokes

b) smell good, but not because you poured a gallon of windsong on yourself.

b.5) your favorite movie is: one flew over the cuckoo's nest, fearless, flirting with disaster, (tricolour) red, sex, lies and videotape, searching for bobby fisher, what's eating gilbert grape, meatballs, ordinary people, fast times, survivor fiji with yau man, The Wire, six feet under, high stakes poker, intervention, or good morning earth.)

c) your curiosity or sense of justice occasionally overpowers your sense of decorum.

d) you laugh hard but not out of charity.

e) have been to starbucks in your pajamas. Not every day for years, though.

f) think Malcolm Gladwell is full of shit, or want to debate it

g) occasionally speak in a foreign accent for own entertainment

h) play hooky from time to time

i) have an archrival/nemesis who adds spice to your life.

j) play poker, surf, disc golf, or meditate.

k) Can talk about wine... and make fun of people who talk about wine.

l) know or pretend to want to know what a squeeze play is.

m) help old ladies across the street or go to trouble to return other people's stuff if you find it, unless it's really really cool and you want it.

n) are a pianist, photographer,physician, teacher, painter, architect, filmmaker, modern dancer, tamale lady, or genius of unspecified field.

o) have skinny dipped in the last two years.