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31 M Chino Hills, CA

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Last Online
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Asian, Other
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Wants kids
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Thai (Okay)

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My self-summary
" If you want to improve, be content to be thought foolish and stupid " - Epictitus

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You probably just viewed my pictures and thought, "aw he's a dog person" then went through the rest and then thought, "oh but he's Asian, Asians aren't my type." You could say I'm being negetative or you can say it's not true, but I've been told it many of times. I assure you if you decide to look at a girl page, you are more likely to see a girl put on her preference, "not into Asian guys" Especially Asian women. Look, I've been fortunate enough to live and love with people of all cultures and really hold no preference. As long as I'm attracted to the person and they are sincere and nice, I guess that's my type. If I have a type then obviously it's not working cause I'm on okcupid trying to talk to complete strangers who are judging me off my ethnicity, looks, and profile. Im being honest, as much as I fill this thing out as thorough as I can, maybe 70% of girls will gloss over me in favor of a white guy with a talent for beer pong. I'm a working professional in the world of weddings. I specialize in well, special moments. I'm the guy to call when you want to impress your girlfriend. I'm basically Cyrano de Bergerac, and if that's a reference you don't understand, then I assure you I'm not your type. I read a lot and try to stay cultured by trying new things and have a fascination for learning other people's culture. I'm not here to make enemies, just learn more about people and make some good friends. I don't want a hook up or a threesome. Maybe someone to look forward to Sunday brunch with, going to the farmers market with my dog, checking out shows and musical acts, trying new restaurants, and maybe go dancing. I mean really I'm up for anything. As long as I'm with someone who I have great chemistry with and gets my jokes, I think I'm pretty simple. I'm a song and dance man, and I'm looking for someone who can keep up.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a headline entertainer for a big special events company. I also do sales assisting as well as do social media for the company. We primarily do weddings, but we basically entertain many different events through out Southern California. I'm the jack of trades of my company. I emcee, Dj, and sometimes sing at my weddings. I love helping my clients with some first dance basics. You'd be surprised how many couples have never danced together before. I also dj at Disneyland. I love my job, you make a lot of good friends and hear a lot of amazing stories. Every weekend I get to see the guy get to marry the girl of his dreams. So I do have a romanticized ideal of love and optimism. And besides all the wedding work, I'm trying to develop a web series as well as content for my company
I’m really good at
I love to cook, I'm actually known for my crepes and oatmeal chocolate chip pie. And I just invented a Thai Tea Tiramisu. So yeah, I like to experiment and combine styles of foods. I also play guitar and sing. Occasionally I'll do an open mic to practice. I also play a little piano. I'm not going to lie, I may have used the singing and guitar thing to get out of trouble, but rarely do I put my foot in my mouth. ;) I'm an entertainer, so I'm a song and dance man. I learned a lot of ballroom dance from my theater years, so I enjoy taking a girl dancing too. I can literally sing newsies word for word. I really love hanging out with kids. Especially my niece and nephews, getting to read to them dressed as spiderman has been a highlight of last year. And according to my nephew, I'm the best at making blanket forts.
The first things people usually notice about me
I know I'm supposed to say something about what people notice about me first, but I've never been complimented for a particular feature, I'm just being honest. There are things I'm known for amongst my friend and colleagues. When people encourage me to sing, they call me Asian John Mayer. But I don't want to be the guy that sings whenever someone asks. I'm the reliable guy, never hesitate to help someone. "Your car broke down? Give Katar a call he'll come out and help". And I have my dog with me a lot. So I guess you'd notice Brutus, more than me. If there are any instruments in the room I'm always drawn to play with it. I'll raise my left eyebrow when something annoys me. I will smile my way out of many awkward conversations.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Favorite books: Love in the time of Cholera, World War Z, beginner's Greek. Catcher in the rye, dark tower series, the cell, pride and predjudice and zombies, high fidelity, the lucky ones, I'm a huge fan of Pablo Neruda and Langston Hughes. The last lecture by Randy pausch is my go to inspirational read. I a have fond memory of tales of a fourth grade nothing and goose bumps

Graphic novels: Kingdom come, Watchmen, Spiderman reign, Spiderman Blue, Batman year one, dark knight returns, superman: secret identity, superman earth one, from hell, marvels, Kick Ass, Wanted, Bone by Jeff Smith, superman birthright, daredevil man without fear

Comicbooks:Amazing Spiderman, Ultimate comics present spiderman, Aquaman(the new52), Batman, All new xmen, uncanny avengers, New Avengers, America's got powers, Nova, Superior Spiderman, Alex + Ada, justice league

Favorite Movies- Say anything, West Side story, Schindler's list, saving private ryan, spiderman, iron man, the dark knight, (most superhero movies), STAR WARS, Paper hearts, moulin rouge, 500 days of summer, serendipity, almost famous, avatar, Star Trek, the God father, The odd couple, Jackie chan movies, breakfast at tiffany's, psycho, dawn of the dead, superman, jerry McGuire, enter the dragon, casino, reservoir dogs, up, the incredibles , big, Texas chainsaw, brick, conan the destroyer, cant hardly wait, goodfellas, high fidelity, back to the future trilogy, ghosts busters I and 2, captain America the winter soldier, THE AVENGERS!!! the list goes on.

Food- I'm a big foodie, so I'll eat anything... I love sushi, mexican food, chinese food, ethiopian food, burgers from 25 degrees, tommy's, the hat, a pie from Polly's pie or Dupor's, Pizza... the list goes on...

TV- the office, how I met your mother, arrested development, the simpsons, family guy, robot chicken, Spartacus, Camelot, Reno 911, bizarre foods, no reservations, the big bang theory, Sherlock, spaced, smallville, snl, degrassi, glee, boardwalk empire, being human, tru blood, deadliest warrior, south park, community, Arrow, bobs burgers, man vs food

Music- I'm a lover of music in general. And I'm even starting to kinda like country... Only a little... Favorite artists? Dashboard confessional, the beatles, cold play, kanye west, Bruno mars, John Mayer, Boyce avenue, lmafo, daft punk, dead maus, nicki Minaj, all American rejects, bob Dylan, the police, Michael buble, b.o.b., paramore, second hand serenade, DeadMau5, skrillex, jay z, John Coltrane, Sinatra, dean Martin, copeland, ellie goulding, imagine dragons, amos lee, Avicci, Tiesto, Katy perry, journey, phil collins... Like I said the list goes on
The six things I could never do without
1. My family
2. friends
3. My dog, Brutus
4. My phone
5. Coffee
6. A good read
I spend a lot of time thinking about
- Most importantly, My father's health. He's been in and out of the hospital for some time now.
- whether I want to bring my dog with me when I'm running errands.
- why the kardashians are so important when there are hungry people, women with no rights, gays being persecuted, and just crazy people shooting people for no reason.
- I feel like a girls definition of "geek" "dork" and "nerd" are totally different from mine. But then again, everyone has something different that makes them a geek.
- How cheat day is like having Christmas once a week.
- How so many of these girls on here are out of my league, and remind me that personally sometimes...
- How my work consistently inspires optimism with every happy couple I meet.
- why some people put inspirational quotes with their selfies.
- why do I have that newsies song in my head?
- "I'm just going to watch half of this episode of law an order" - 30 mins later- "well looks like I'm going to be late for work..."
- the more ice cream I eat is just more calcium for my body right?
- why am I going on a tangent of random thoughts on my okcupid account.
- if you read this much about me, then you must be really cool, cause even I am over this gag. Sorry for making you read this nonsense, I actually never think anyone reads these. Watch this, "FART". Yep I said the word fart. You either laughed or started looking for someone less sarcastic.
- why do girls always take pictures with hands on their hips.
- bet this would taste better with bacon...
- why can't life's problems be solved in an elaborate musical number.
On a typical Friday night I am
If I'm not working, I'll go to the gym, make a healthy dinner or join my friends for drinks
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
If you haven't noticed, I made a spiderman costume to surprise my nephew for Halloween. Since then I've actually worn it more times for my cousin's special needs class and for a few charity events. Turns out even with just a costume, great power must come with great responsibility. But if anyone asks, I don't know spiderman, I just take pictures of him ;) ( this is the part where you go looking for that other guy's profile with the dirty mirror showing you his abs, or backwards cap.)
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
- You understand that my family comes first. We're not the Capulets, but right now, with my father's health. A lot of emergencies have popped up. So I apologize in advance.
- If you ever had a yellow umbrella
- If you still like cereal and cartoons in the morning (do they still have cartoons in the morning?)
- If you like classic movies and have a guilty pleasure for musicals
- Are young at heart with an old soul
- If you want to show me how dorky you are.
- Must love dogs. I'll be honest, Brutus and I are a package deal.
- If you know what "Please remain seated" sounds like in spanish
- If you ever want me to bring home cakes and flowers from my weddings.
- If you've sang cheap trick's, I want you to want me, in the shower today.
- If you hate cell phones on dates *i really hate cellphones at the dinner table. I see couples on dates and all they do is sit and go on Facebook or text. If I was having dinner with a beautiful girl, my phone would be the last thing I'd want to touch.*
- If you like that I can make you smile
- If you know what movie this song I'm singing is from