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idonnoy

46 F Norwich, CT

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 37–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends

My Details

Last Online
Aug 12
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Two-year college
Job
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Has dogs and has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
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Question of the moment....
"What are you looking for...?"
Love of course. Is it under a rock? Behind a tree? Hidden in your hand? In your eyes?
Be honest now. Who is REALLY LOOKING for love? Doesn't love find you? Most of us start with friendship and hope, that maybe, one of you, will develop into a loving relationship. Am I wrong?

Before you read on, know that I wrote most of what I wrote so that you would understand -- no, I am not looking for a good time. I am looking to meet new friends, and with any luck, maybe, one of those friendships will turn into a loving relationship.

I don't expect to "fall in love" overnight. But I do believe in "love at first sight." lol. What can I say, I'm a hopeless romantic. Sometimes, when you meet someone, you just KNOW, you just FEEL something about them that says "hey, I want to know more about you." Sometimes, it even says "I want to know everything about you." And, there's the obvious, "it was nice meeting you, can we be friends?" We all know it's true, we've all felt it at some point or another. It's rather sad when one feels one thing and the other feels something entirely different. It's even sadder if one can't be honest about it. The saddest is when one lies and plays with the other's heart without regard for the heart about to be hurt. I only ask that you be honest. I promise to always be honest with you. If you cannot be honest with me, please don't message me.

I thought being in my 40's and dating was going to be just awful. I was right. How does one our age meet people these days? Single sites? Really? I thought dating men in their 40's was going to be the easy part. I was wrong. I have learned that regardless of the "click" or the claim of "relationship wanting" men have, the truth is, if you are NOT ready to slip into something more comfortable, like a healthy relationship with a loving woman, your age is irrelevant. 42 year olds can still play the same silly games as a 26 year old. I think the 42 year old plays it a little better due to knowledge though. ;0) (just saying.) With that said.... Please gentlemen, play nice. No games here. I will take my ball and go home.
What I’m doing with my life
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Making changes. I love my life! It's only going to get better! A special man is more than welcome to share these changes with me.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Lifting other's spirits when they're down. Being "there" when needed. Giving good advice. Great problem solver. I'm a really good friend to have. Plus I write well.....
The first things people usually notice about me
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My smile. I love to smile and make others smile. I'm told, when I smile, all of me smiles. I'm usually very positive and upbeat. I love to laugh. I think happiness (smiles, laughing, hugs) is the fountain of youth.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I'll read anything by Stephen King, although not all are my favorites. I like horror and suspense books and movies. I can't really name authors, various. Favorite movies, "Seven," "The Seventh Sign," and "Less than Zero." Love the "Saw" series. Favorite actor Robert Downey Jr. Favorite actress Julia Roberts. Music: Enigma, Deep Forest, the original scorned woman Alanis Morissette and anything I can dance to. I don't watch t.v. these days. Dramatized reality sucks. Food, love food. Mexican is my favorite but I won't turn down a good meal. Favorite time of the year; fall. The colors are beautiful, the temp is cool, not too hot, good cuddling weather. Fall means the holidays are coming. I love to give and the giving season is mine. :o)
ps. comedy is a fav too..
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. My kids.
2. My pets.
3. My pillow.
4. Love.
5. Work.
6. Vacation.
Not necessarily in this order. "Love" encompasses all forms, including friendship.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My children's happiness and the man I'm going to share my future with. I'm done being THE "strong, independent" woman. I'm ready to be the "strong, caring" woman in a loving relationship with a "strong, caring" man. All my life I've put other's needs before mine, taking care of others. It's my turn now. I want to take care of me and take care of my man. I want to try new things, and do old ones. I want to share my life with a special man and him share his with me. I don't want to be afraid of being hurt because I want to believe he'll stick it out, through good and bad, thick and thin, as all good friends do. I want him to feel as safe in my arms as I do in his, because I know he's been hurt too. When he talks about the "best things" that have come into his life, I want to be on that list, and vice versa.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Since when is a Friday night typical?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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shhh, come here....I'll tell you in private.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you're looking for a good woman and not just a good time. If you're looking for someone you're willing to give an honest chance to and not just another date in your datebook. You should message me if you want a friend...... and if we "click" you're not going to be afraid or just playing because you're not ready to give up okcupid or some other dating site.