"What are you looking for...?"
Love of course. Is it under a rock? Behind a tree? Hidden in your hand? In your eyes?
Be honest now. Who is REALLY LOOKING for love? Doesn't love find you? Most of us start with friendship and hope, that maybe, one of you, will develop into a loving relationship. Am I wrong?
Before you read on, know that I wrote most of what I wrote so that you would understand -- no, I am not looking for a good time. I am looking to meet new friends, and with any luck, maybe, one of those friendships will turn into a loving relationship.
I don't expect to "fall in love" overnight. But I do believe in "love at first sight." lol. What can I say, I'm a hopeless romantic. Sometimes, when you meet someone, you just KNOW, you just FEEL something about them that says "hey, I want to know more about you." Sometimes, it even says "I want to know everything about you." And, there's the obvious, "it was nice meeting you, can we be friends?" We all know it's true, we've all felt it at some point or another. It's rather sad when one feels one thing and the other feels something entirely different. It's even sadder if one can't be honest about it. The saddest is when one lies and plays with the other's heart without regard for the heart about to be hurt. I only ask that you be honest. I promise to always be honest with you. If you cannot be honest with me, please don't message me.
I thought being in my 40's and dating was going to be just awful. I was right. How does one our age meet people these days? Single sites? Really? I thought dating men in their 40's was going to be the easy part. I was wrong. I have learned that regardless of the "click" or the claim of "relationship wanting" men have, the truth is, if you are NOT ready to slip into something more comfortable, like a healthy relationship with a loving woman, your age is irrelevant. 42 year olds can still play the same silly games as a 26 year old. I think the 42 year old plays it a little better due to knowledge though. ;0) (just saying.) With that said.... Please gentlemen, play nice. No games here. I will take my ball and go home.