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idreamofhari

34 San Francisco, CA Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–38
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 10:00pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body type
Athletic
Diet
Vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other
Sign
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Status
Single
Type
Mostly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Other (Okay)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I was challenged recently to define what a relationship is to me. For the first time in my life, I had a solid and complete answer.

For me, a relationship primarily needs to be 2 things: 1) a space between two people of safety and support, allowing for honesty, vulnerability, acceptance, understanding, and non-judgement. 2) a source of passion and inspiration, encouraging and supporting creative, emotional, and spiritual growth within both individuals and within the union of the two. Everything else is optional.

As for me, I am quietly confident but not aggressive or boastful in anything I do. I am introverted, but if I like you and we are one on one you'd never guess it. I like my personal space and time alone for reflection, but being closely connected to others is essential for my happiness. When I meet a girl I like I may be a bit guarded at first and will not rush into a physical relationship, but it does not imply a lack of interest, just caution. If I am given the chance and time to trust a woman and feel connected so I can be vulnerable, then I will open up and my passion will be plain as day.

In addition to the serious stuff, I am super laid back and easy to get along with. I am also incredibly silly, fun-loving, kind, generous, geeky, and filled with big dreams and ideas. And there's nothing I love more than sharing those things with others.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Creator. Humanitarian. Filmmaker. Writer. Storyteller. Traveler.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being a goof. Having philosophical debates. Word games. Creating stories. Dancing freely. Traveling anywhere.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Lila (+ Zen & the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance),The Glass Bead Game, Bhagavad Gita, Amazing Adventures of Kavalier & Clay, The Bell Jar, Orlando, Island, The God of Small Things

Movies: Lost in Translation, Solaris, Jules et Jim, Days of Heaven, Happy Together, Days of Being Wild, Kill Bill, Breaking the Waves, Rashomon, Into The Wild, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Her, Boyhood

Shows: Six Feet Under, Rectify, Orange is the New Black, Orphan Black, Breaking Bad, Homeland, Scrubs, New Girl, Parks & Rec, Portlandia

Music: Radiohead, Purity Ring, Bon Iver, Land of Talk, Lana Del Rey, The Smiths, Pavement, My Bloody Valentine

Podcasts: You Made It Weird, How Did This Get Made, Mental Illness Happy Hour
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
cinema
travel
stories
yoga
philosophy
music
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The ever greying grey.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Skyping with my second family in Nepal
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You want to discuss film. (check out my sadly abandoned film blog: https://filmwithmeaning.wordpress.com)

You want to create something together.

You want to go on a sky-diving first date. I have never been and I can't imagine a more absurd and awesome way to do it for the first time.