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if_ckedyourmom

25 / F / Bisexual / Single

Huntsville, Alabama

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Imagine that someone you care about is suffering horribly as a result of a terminal illness. If it were their wish, would you consider helping them to end their life prematurely?
  • Yes.
  • No.
So, I would have to say, no, I would not help them end their life prematurely; however I think there needs to be another option. I feel if someone is suffering, then they should have the right to end their life, I just could not be the one to help do it.
Imagine that someone you care about is sufferinghorribly as a result of a terminal illness. If it were their wish,would you consider helping them to end their life prematurely?
  • Yes.
  • No.
So, I would have to say, no, I would not help them end their lifeprematurely; however I think there needs to be another option. Ifeel if someone is suffering, then they should have the right toend their life, I just could not be the one to help do it.

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lama_nama_numi: Hey, we're supposed to get 3 1/2 inches tonight.
ifuckedyourmomhard: I got 7 1/2 inches Tuesday night.
ifuckedyourmomhard: LMAO
lama_nama_numi: Hey, we're supposed to get 3 1/2 inchestonight.
ifuckedyourmomhard: I got 7 1/2 inches Tuesday night.
ifuckedyourmomhard: LMAO

Jealousy - healthy or unhealthy, in the...?

Jealousy - healthy or unhealthy, in the context of a relationship?
  • Healthy
  • Unhealthy


Eh, it depends on the level of jealousy.
Jealousy - healthy or unhealthy, in the context of arelationship?
  • Healthy
  • Unhealthy


Eh, it depends on the level of jealousy.
Jealousy - healthy or unhealthy, in the...?

Is there a God?

Is there a God?
  • Yes
  • No


There needs to be another option.
Is there a God?
  • Yes
  • No


There needs to be another option.
Is there a God?

Superb

My 2 year old son totally just took a move right out of the movie Empire Records. He's in time out and I told him he couldn't get off the couch. What does he do? He grabs a couch cushion and carries it around with him. Hahahaha.

And now he is listening to the Mexicana music choice channel. He's trying to sing along.
My 2 year old son totally just took a move right out of the movieEmpire Records. He's in time out and I told him he couldn't get offthe couch. What does he do? He grabs a couch cushion and carries itaround with him. Hahahaha.

And now he is listening to the Mexicana music choice channel. He'strying to sing along.
Superb

Grrr.

I'm a little annoyed right now. It really isn't my place to care, but some peolpe just...don't think. Ugh. I have this guy who I've talked to online for about 3 1/2 years. He just recently lost his virginity and the girl is now pregnant. They want to have an abortion, but he is having trouble coming up with his half of the money, so I asked what they were going to do if he couldn't come up with it. He said he didn't know. I told him there's always adoption but "neither of us want to do that" he says. Wtf? Ok. I am totally pro-choice. I would never have an abortion, but what someone else wants to do is none of my business. But come on! If you don't have the money for an abortion, why not? Are you gonna keep it then? If you can't even afford money for an abortion, how are you gonna take care of it once it's born?! I just don't understand why people would rather kill a baby (fetus, whatever you wanna call it) rather than carry it to term and give it to someone who can't have children, for example, or who can care for it better?

Anyway, I asked him what he was going to do if they couldn't get an abortion and he said he didn't know. I asked him "don't you think you should be thinking about those things" and he says to ME, of all people, "Jade. This isn't an easy decision. Don't treat it as such." WTF? He's known me since before I got pregnant, and he knows the circumstances. My response to him "hey, i know it's not an easy decision. i got pregant by a guy that RAPED me. i know what it's like to have to think about that stuff". He hasn't responded. Hmm..Wonder why.
I'm a little annoyed right now. It really isn't my place to care,but some peolpe just...don't think. Ugh. I have this guy who I'vetalked to online for about 3 1/2 years. He just recently lost hisvirginity and the girl is now pregnant. They want to have anabortion, but he is having trouble coming up with his half of themoney, so I asked what they were going to do if he couldn't come upwith it. He said he didn't know. I told him there's always adoptionbut "neither of us want to do that" he says. Wtf? Ok. I am totallypro-choice. I would never have an abortion, but what someone elsewants to do is none of my business. But come on! If you don't havethe money for an abortion, why not? Are you gonna keep it then? Ifyou can't even afford money for an abortion, how are you gonna takecare of it once it's born?! I just don't understand why peoplewould rather kill a baby (fetus, whatever you wanna call it) ratherthan carry it to term and give it to someone who can't havechildren, for example, or who can care for it better?

Anyway, I asked him what he was going to do if they couldn't get anabortion and he said he didn't know. I asked him "don't you thinkyou should be thinking about those things" and he says to ME, ofall people, "Jade. This isn't an easy decision. Don't treat it assuch." WTF? He's known me since before I got pregnant, and he knowsthe circumstances. My response to him "hey, i know it's not an easydecision. i got pregant by a guy that RAPED me. i know what it'slike to have to think about that stuff". He hasn't responded.Hmm..Wonder why.
Grrr.

Wtf?

Some people are creepy. This guy IMed me on here one night and we talked a little bit, but then he started freaking me out cause he was talking about sex and wanted my number and shit. So, I ignored him. And he sent me a million and one IMs then 50 thousand more emails. Omg. Do people not get it?
Some people are creepy. This guy IMed me on here one night and wetalked a little bit, but then he started freaking me out cause hewas talking about sex and wanted my number and shit. So, I ignoredhim. And he sent me a million and one IMs then 50 thousand moreemails. Omg. Do people not get it?
Wtf?