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ignited-chris

38 / M / Straight / Single

Oakland, California

His Details

Last Online
May 20
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Strictly other
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other and laughing about it
Sign
Aries and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on space camp
Job
Medicine / Health
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Has a kid, and might want more
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I am on a journey of self discovery, and my life is better than its ever been before. I am changing myself on a daily basis, reading inspirational books, playing, working, growing, practicing.

I am polyamorous, not interested in monogamy at this time.

I seek happiness in my work, connections with people, great food, fantastic electronic music.

I like to be high on life, sober!

I have an 9 year old son

Its important to live well, feel good, make new friends and meet new lovers.
What I’m doing with my life
I am changing my therapeutic bodywork practice into one based on om coaching and bodywork is how I've earned my living the last 11 years and I'm shifting to a bigger picture all of me format to start with coaching that might just revolutionize an industry or pop out a new modality.

I moved to Oakland about a year ago seeing client in my home.

I focus a lot on my sobriety, orgasmic meditation, and burning man. I love dancing to electronic music, appreciating art, and beauty.
I’m really good at
Putting my attention on you, Therapeutic bodywork, Hula hooping, Sex and infinite games.
The first things people usually notice about me
I have a lot of personality and presence, and a whole lot of passion. Beware I'm intense
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
You mean I have to pick?
Hmm, right now I read a lot of spiritual books. The last book I finished was Slow Sex, by Nicole Daedone. Open right now is power of now, Ekhart Tole and The Four Agreements, by Don Miguel Ruiz.

I like Movies even though I haven't seen many lately, The last movie I saw in the theater was Underworld 4, which spawned a 'bad ass movie' kick, where I watched the other 3 Underworlds, and all the Resident Evils (old room mate bonding moment). Usually my favorite movies are dramas, or romantic comedies, bonus points if I cry.

Shows, its been weeks since I watched much TV, lately I watched almost everything Joss Whedon wrote or directed. Buffy the vampire slayer, Dolhouse, Firefly and Serenity, now I'm in the middle of Angel.

Music! I love electronic music, Wala, Beats Antique, PANTyRAiD, Basnectar, The Glitch Mob, An-ten-nae, Heyoka, NastyNasty just to name a few artists on my iPod. I like going to Ritual, 1015 on friday nights, Beat Church, or whatever show the universe pulls me to. Pandora stations, Bonobo, Random Rab, RJD2, Eprom, Florence and the Machine, Flunk, Frou Frou, Hooverphonic, Kate Nash, Lily Allen, Massive Attack, Opio, Pretty Lights, Thievery Corporation and Zero 7 to name a few. I listen to my iPod and Pandora a lot usually allays listening to something.

Food! One time I considered myself a spoiled rotten food snob, LOL. I have an allergy to wheat, just throwing that out there. I live on mexican food, little hole in the wall taqurias where nobody speaks english are the best. Going out I like to do indian, thai, BBQ, and american breakfast.

Im sure there is a lot more I could expand on.
The six things I could never do without
Coffee (no cream or sugar) just black or espresso.

Sex

Orgasmic Meditation

my hoop (im hella into hoop dance)

Community

a great shower / tub
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Following my desires, how I can be present, not holding back,
feeling people and being felt.
On a typical Friday night I am
Crazy adventurous -- seeking life, looking to meet somebody,
dancing and being good to myself.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
If you can get through my goofy, asshole, space cadet, dork sides then you might just see the tender warm heart strong man that can handle anything life dishes out and ask for more.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–43
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners, casual sex
You should message me if
you want goalless play