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39 Santa Cruz, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 35–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Today – 8:36am
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Strictly other
Not at all
Other, and laughing about it
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Dropped out of space camp
Rather not say
Open relationship
Has a kid, and might want more
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am on a journey of self discovery, and my life is better than its ever been before. I am changing myself on a daily basis, reading inspirational books, playing, working, growing, practicing.

I am polyamorous, not interested in monogamy at this time.

I seek happiness in my work, connections with people, great food, fantastic electronic music.

I like to be high on life, sober!

I have an 10 year old son, he lives with his mom.

Its important to live well, feel good, make new friends and meet new lovers.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am changing my therapeutic bodywork practice into one based on om coaching and bodywork is how I've earned my living the last 11 years and I'm shifting to a bigger picture all of me format to start with coaching that might just revolutionize an industry or pop out a new modality.

I focus a lot on my sobriety, orgasmic meditation, and burning man. I love dancing to electronic music, appreciating art, and beauty.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Putting my attention on you, Therapeutic bodywork, Hula hooping, Sex and infinite games.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have a lot of personality and presence, and a whole lot of passion. Beware I'm intense
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
You mean I have to pick?
Hmm, right now I read a lot of spiritual books. The last book I finished was Slow Sex, by Nicole Daedone. Open right now is power of now, Ekhart Tole and The Four Agreements, by Don Miguel Ruiz.

I like Movies even though I haven't seen many lately, The last movie I saw in the theater was Underworld 4, which spawned a 'bad ass movie' kick, where I watched the other 3 Underworlds, and all the Resident Evils (old room mate bonding moment). Usually my favorite movies are dramas, or romantic comedies, bonus points if I cry.

Shows, its been weeks since I watched much TV, lately I watched almost everything Joss Whedon wrote or directed. HUGE Doctor Who fan! I'm in the middle of Walking dead.

Music! I love electronic music, Wala, Beats Antique, PANTyRAiD, Basnectar, The Glitch Mob, An-ten-nae, Heyoka, NastyNasty just to name a few artists on my iPod. When Im in SF, I like going to Ritual, 1015 on friday nights, Beat Church, or whatever show the universe pulls me to. Pandora stations, Bonobo, Random Rab, RJD2, Eprom, Florence and the Machine, Flunk, Frou Frou, Hooverphonic, Kate Nash, Lily Allen, Massive Attack, Opio, Pretty Lights, Thievery Corporation and Zero 7 to name a few. I listen to my iPod and Pandora a lot usually allays listening to something.

Food! One time I considered myself a spoiled rotten food snob, LOL. I have an allergy to wheat, just throwing that out there. I am Paleo/primal.

Im sure there is a lot more I could expand on.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Coffee (no cream or sugar) just black or espresso.

Having a lot of sensation

Orgasmic Meditation (try to have daily)

Hula Hoops

Community and connection.

A great tub, sauna and cold plunge (thank god for Kiva and Harbin)

I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How I can be more honest but not over share. Feeling where people's edges are and playing up to but not going over them. Fine tuning my skills of saying what I think and asking for what I want.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Going to crazy town, and looking for people who want to join me there.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
If you can get through my goofy, jerk, science-fiction, dork sides then you might just see the tender heart strong man that can handle anything life dishes out, after a good cry, and ask for more.
You should message me if
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If you think you can handle my jerk side.