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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 22-35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Aug 1, 2014
5' 11" (1.80m)
Atheism and it’s important
Working on Space camp
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
English (Fluently), German (Fluently)
My self-summary
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OMG I just re-read this profile and realised how self-obsessed and tragic it sounds. The real me is not a dating website entry. But for now I guess that's all there is:

I'm a composer living in Berlin since 2008... I lived in London for 8 years before coming here. I travel to London a lot (I am a composer in residence with the Royal Opera House) but try to be in Berlin as much as possible. I'm pretty easy-going, love conversation and meaningful friendships, fun times, parties and politics and culture (mainly music, theatre, art, literature). Also love being spontaneous too, and clubbing/going out/partying. Generally active.

I'm mainly looking for back chat, cheek, arguments about anything, new business ideas, future friends, long cuddles that make your skin stick together, future ex-boyfriends, future regrettable shags, future unregrettable shags, future retirement home gossip, lazy mornings in bed, hot sex, active mornings out of bed and dirty stories to tell the grandkids....

Außerdem suche ich nach Leuten, mit denen ich zu Cafes, Kneipen, Partys, Clubbing gehen kann. Ich bin immer auf der Suche nach mehr Freunden... ich stehe auf Musik, Kultur, Nachtleben, Film, Kunst, usw.... eventuell suche ich nach sinnvollen Beziehungen. aber das heisst gar nicht haus/auto/2.4kinder (oder ist es eigentlich 1.6 in Deutschland?)

ich mag gern die Künste, die Gesseligkeit, meine Arbeit (aber nicht zu viel), auszugehen, Religion zu kündigen, die Musik (vor allem klassiche, und elektronische).... fast alles interessiert mich außer Fußball oder Gespräche über Geld.

ich bin immer auf der Suche nach deutschen Freunden, dass ich meine Deutsch mit ihnen verbessern kann.
What I’m doing with my life
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Settling in Berlin... composing... (opera, theatre and multimedia work), running my promotions agency, making new friends, enjoying life, having fun, being happy.
I’m really good at
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okcupid dates.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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-American Psycho
-Dennis Cooper
-Tori Amos
-Missy Elliott
-David Hoyle
-Aerea Negrot!!!!
-Silver Future
-Second hand clothes
-Genderbending twinks
-My family
-Barbie Deinhoffs
-Having children one day
-Sylvia Plath
-Scott Walker
-Queer politics / Non-heteronormativity
-Richard Dawkins
-South Park
-A strong queer community
-Radical Faeries
-Burning Man Festival (I'm a burner)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A piano
Easy Access to a big city
New possibilities
A passport
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
... my role in the world.
... music.
... what it must be like to be other people.
... whether i can get it on Ebay.
... how to beat systems.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I'd like to think I don't have a typical Friday night... but usually whatever I'm doing will be with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've just come out of a serious relationship but I'm definitely up for dating new guys.
You should message me if
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... you can answer this question yourself.