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53 • San Francisco, CA • Woman
I’m looking for
- Ages 35–59
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, short-term dating
- Last online
- Apr 16
- 5′ 8″ (1.73m)
- Body type
- Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
- Dropped out of university
- Open relationship
- Likes dogs and likes cats
- English (Fluently), Dutch (Okay), German (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly), French (Poorly)
I have a primary partner, zzoink, and while I am still open to meeting new people, I am not looking for a long term primary relationship. That said, I always enjoy in meeting interesting new people whether or not that becomes a physical situation or friends or even just a one time meeting. Also I should add that I am pansexual rather than bisexual (damn you OKC for not including every possible orientation!).
[Now on to the regularly scheduled programming ;)]
I prefer doing over talking. Talking is good but doing is.
I try to have no expectations then I am never disappointed.
I love advertising: good advertising is good, but bad advertising can be great.
I don’t have a car.
I don’t have a time machine.
I can’t read minds.
When I assume things, I’m usually wrong.
Sometimes I don’t get the hint (see above). Sometimes I pretend to not get the hint to make people have to say it.
When I make statements about what I think, they sometimes come back to bite me in the butt.
I used to practice being invisible.
I used to practice being queen of the world.
I still practice being queen of the world.
I don’t really like going under the water, but I will go up in the air.
Sometimes I’m amazed that everything actually works.
I try to be polite, especially with people I like.
I’ve seen some things.
I’ve done some things.
I have a lot of opinions about a lot of things, but won’t tell you until I know you.
I _do _ judge a book by its cover. How else should I judge whether I want to read the book?
I tend not to be insulted. Insults only work if both parties agree.
I really like meeting new people.
Some things I’ll never tell.
I sometimes think maybe I _am_ too smart for my own good.
You never know until you ask. But then you know.
I remember my dreams and really like them.
I am optimistic and generally happy.
I am generally more grey than black & white.
I like it when people get my jokes. And when I get theirs.
I love imagination and creativity.
I prefer the edges of things. Or being in the spotlight.
I try to make the most fun out of wherever I am.
I try to be WYSIWYG.
I was married for many years but am single now.
I am this, that and the other thing depending on my mood.
These are just some of the things I am.
I like alot of different types of music. Mostly music I can dance to. I've been getting into tech/edm but don't know all the sub-genres so basically anything with a booty-shaking bottom.
And finally, all food is good! Well, let me clarify: actual food, nothing sold in a drivethru (not food), nothing in a box with ingredients from a lab, etc. Actual food that our great-grandparents would recognize as such. Prepared well. I don't cook very well, but really, really appreciate a person who feeds me.
If you have read this far, thank you and there are definitely plus points in your column :) (but only if you read all my ramblings)...
I want to write this explanation since I’m kinda dismayed at the red dot up there to the right with “replies very selectively”. When I first got on this site and saw some profiles with this I would think, how rude, don’t these people answer their messages? Well, I guess I’m one of the rude ones now. That’s why I wanted to explain it. I usually don’t respond to notifications that someone rated me highly. I’m flattered and thank you, but I usually don’t respond. I also usually don’t respond to someone saving me to favorites. Again, I’m flattered and thank you. I will however, reply to any message a person sends me. I just wanted to clarify this so I don’t come off as rude. Also, it might take me up to a week to reply, although I do try to make it sooner.
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