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ikkin_gnilrad

27 F Los Angeles, CA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 1:04pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Asian
Height
5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Smokes
Drinks
Drugs
Religion
Sign
Gemini
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
"marry me!"

you probably could use some help. here is a cheat sheet on me:
you can win me over very easily if you can give me brain boners over biking, nhl, local communities, books, echo park, non-profit/social enterprise initiatives, post grad studies, traveling, degrassi, high low culture. you can lose me just as quickly boasting about the industry, hollywood, non-hockey sports, conservatism, your band/dj sets. you can sustain my interest only briefly if you don't know how to follow through on any quickly forged connections, which is a more common experience than i wish for it to be. if i was jaded, though, i wouldn't be entertaining this. and it is entertaining indeed.

i'm an only child, too independent for my own good. looking to learn to share my me time with good rad people who can help me get over my case of commitmentphobia.
while i have commitment issues, i have the opposite of intimacy issues. i guess i'm trying to find a good middle ground--sharing some good coupley moments for longer than a second that mean more than nothing, but less than eternity. while i'm looking for something longer term, i'm not looking for something serious. ever. it should still be fun after all, right?

in short-- i wanna be adored by someone adorable, that i can adore, and be adorable with.
What I’m doing with my life
trying to save the world.
or at least make it a better place.

i give a shit about things and you should too. it is not cool to be too cool to give a shit.
I’m really good at
pretending to be american. being mistaken for mexican.
carving out my world in echo park.
wordplay.
eating messily.
napping.
bookclub.
being a bleeding heart without bleeding all over you.
inciting group hugs and happy birthday singing.
ingesting deathly spicy foods without breaking a sweat.
modesty.
The first things people usually notice about me
i look exactly like your asian friend _____.
i have a really good grasp of the english language.
you immediately feel so tall standing by me.
i've offended you somehow, but you're laughing so it's ok?
i have really pretty hair.
you can't tell if i'm being sarcastic or sincere. me neither.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
i like the book versions of movies better, and songs with movie titles, and books with song titles, and tv shows about food. leftovers and reruns are my jam.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
how l.a. is simultaneously a neverland and an alwaysland and can i stop being a tinkerbell and ever be a wendy?
On a typical Friday night I am
avoiding weekend warriors.

going out during the week is way more fun. as is keeping it chill during the weekend.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
i like hipsters.
but only ironically.

please, don't tell anyone.

less ironically, i have a major case of relationship aspergers. one of my friend's exes once said 'i fall in love 5 days at a time'; i completely understand that feeling. i have no clue what i'm doing or what you're doing. and i will never get why, though i may try to hazard a guess. and frankly, i'm ok with it because i like determining my own rules-- i'm not interested in having relationships like every other out there. my biggest challenge is finding other people that are endeared to my aspyness and can complement it. my next biggest challenge is trying to figure out how to sustain connections longterm without taking things too seriously (or rather, preemptively freaking out about things getting too serious when 'serious' is the last thing i want things to be). how does it happen? (not a rhetorical question.)
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
you can give me hope for the world. no pressure. just tell me what you're doing to make the world a better place.

and/or
you have a similar mild case of relationship aspergers and want to [co]write (y)our own rules.

and/or
you want to co-found a creative collective, where i write while you do whatever it is that makes you happy.

and/or
you are a traveler. an international, more specifically. it's nice to be reminded of non-american ideologies. and the accents are more charming.

and if you got balls. and know how to use em.

but not
if you wanna make plans to hang out without seeing if we have any sorta intellectual (dare i say emotional?) foundation for enjoying each other's company. it's the chemistry litmus test, i know. but those are easy to cheat on, so let's study each other first k?

ps
i'm down to meet people who can pique my interest and engage me, but i am not actively seeking. i don't have time for more revolving door relationships that seem endemic to l.a. so i may not respond if that's the vibe i get. i'm probably not even going to click on you if you don't write anything that clicks with me. but i commend you for trying. good luck!

this is the most high maintenance i'll ever get. promise.