Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
but seriously, that would mean free healthcare for you and a green
card for me. and love and a lifetime of adventures, if immigration
i'm an only child, too independent for my own good. looking to
learn to share my me time with good rad people who can help me get
over my case of commitmentphobia.
while i have commitment issues, i have the opposite of intimacy
issues. i guess i'm trying to find a good middle ground--sharing
some good coupley moments for longer than a second that mean more
than nothing, but less than eternity. while i'm looking for
something longer term, i'm not looking for something serious. ever.
it should still be fun after all, right?
in short-- i wanna be adored by someone adorable, that i can adore,
and be adorable with.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
trying to save the world.
or at least make it a better place.
i give a shit about things and you should too. it is not cool to be
too cool to give a shit.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
pretending to be american. being mistaken for mexican.
carving out my world in echo park.
being a bleeding heart without bleeding all over you.
inciting group hugs and happy birthday singing.
ingesting deathly spicy foods without breaking a sweat.
The first things people usually notice about me
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i look exactly like your asian friend _____.
i have a really good grasp of the english language.
you immediately feel so tall standing by me.
i've offended you somehow, but you're laughing so it's ok?
i have really pretty hair.
you can't tell if i'm being sarcastic or sincere. me neither.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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i like the book versions of movies better, and songs with movie
titles, and books with song titles, and tv shows about food.
leftovers and reruns are my jam.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how l.a. is simultaneously a neverland and an alwaysland and can i
stop being a tinkerbell and ever be a wendy?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
avoiding weekend warriors.
going out during the week is way more fun. as is keeping it chill
during the weekend.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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i like hipsters.
but only ironically.
please, don't tell anyone.
less ironically, i have a major case of relationship aspergers,
complicated by my simultaneous commitmentphobia and intimacy mania.
i know what i'm about and want (semi-committed non-monogamy), but
less so about how to get it. nor what you want, and if you even get
what i'm going for. and frankly, i'm ok with it because i like
determining my own rules and figuring it out as we go along-- i'm
not interested in having relationships like every other out there,
even if what i desire is something longer term.
my biggest challenge is finding other people that are endeared to
my aspyness and can complement it. my next biggest challenge is
trying to figure out how to sustain connections longterm without
taking things too seriously (or rather, preemptively freaking out
about things getting too serious when 'serious' is the last thing i
want things to be). how does it happen? (not a rhetorical
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you can give me hope for the world. no pressure. just tell me what
you're doing to make the world a better place.
you have a similar mild case of relationship aspergers and want to
[co]write (y)our own rules.
you want to co-found a creative collective, where i write while you
do whatever it is that makes you happy.
you are a traveler. an international, more specifically. it's nice
to be reminded of non-american ideologies. and the accents are more
and if you got balls. and know how to use em.
if you wanna make plans to hang out without seeing if we have any
sorta intellectual (dare i say emotional?) foundation for enjoying
each other's company. it's the chemistry litmus test, i know. but
those are easy to cheat on, so let's study each other first
i'm down to meet people who can pique my interest and engage me,
but i am not actively seeking. i don't have time for more revolving
door relationships that seem endemic to l.a. so i may not respond
if that's the vibe i get. i'm probably not even going to click on
you if you don't write anything that clicks with me. but i commend
you for trying. good luck!
this is the most high maintenance i'll ever get. promise.
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