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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 29-52
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 3:04pm
5' 11" (1.80m)
Body Type
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
My self-summary
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sorta punk, sorta jock. well-educated and whipsmart. quiet.
What I’m doing with my life
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just finished an MFA in photography. working for the man in digital marketing to fund a publishing company with my mates.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
knowing that i'm not very good at anything.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
david foster wallace, marilynne robinson, philip roth, cormac mccarthy, alice munro, cheever, george saunders, whitman, flannery o'connor, william maxwell, thoreau, denis johnson, woolf, anne carson, tom drury, henry james, william gass, wilco, vic chesnutt, lucinda, willie nelson, patti smith, sufjan, neil finn/crowded house, dylan, pj harvey, r.e.m., rickie lee jones, elliott smith, lyle lovett, sleater-kinney, mark mulcahy/miracle legion, fleetwood mac, van morrison, gillian welch, grant lee buffalo, dolly parton, erykah badu, ryan adams, courtney/hole, nick drake, neko case, moz/the smiths, the stones, sigur ros, morton feldman, shostakovich, ornette coleman, sonny rollins, art blakey, joan mitchell, twombly, bonnard, marsden hartley, ruscha, dan graham, richter, diebenkorn, burchfield, eggleston, robert adams, john gossage, friedlander, atget, stephen shore, hedwig & the angry inch, elevator repair service, sopranos, the last picture show, wings of desire, eternal sunshine, rushmore, days of heaven, blood simple, crimes & misdemeanors, kill bill(s), magnolia, ida.

now reading a set of essays by lionel trilling called "the moral obligation to be intelligent" and it's humbling.

if you're into golden girls or housewives and such, that's cool, but we are probably not a match
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
camera & tri-x
the sun
india pale ales
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
words and pictures
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
hopefully drinking and talking until 4am. or with you.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
i actually prefer "let it bleed" to "exile on main street."
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you're in shape, masculine, inquisitive, and calm. if you're specific about what you like and what you want. if you're seriously ready to go on a date. and if you can be my champion and my critic, and really mean it either way, that'd be the best.