I consider 'there's no way to do that' a statement of challenge, not a concession to inevitability. I take sex both as intensely and as casually as it deserves. I don't like losing, but I try very hard to be gracious when I do. I've got a sadly limited vocal range, but that doesn't stop me from singing when the mood moves me. My pronunciation is irrevocably and curiously erroneous in amusing ways. I'm happiest when I've just made someone laugh -- the harder the better. My (white, male, financial) privilege is examined, and kept under recurring surveillance. I'll try almost anything once, and on zero notice if my schedule is free.
(As for the body type self-summary in the details sidebar, I prefer "stocky", but that's not an available option on the list, so it gets put here.)