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30 F Middletown, OH

My Details

Last Online
Today – 10:43am
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Atheism, and very serious about it
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from high school
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Dislikes dogs and dislikes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I'm only attracted to BLACK MEN. This is not a conscious choice that I've made, just the way it is for me. And no, it's not a "size thing". So, all of you men out there thinking about sending me a message because you might be "the one" to change my mind, you won't, so please don't waste both your time as well as mine. If you're offended by this, my apologies, but please refrain from sending hate mail. Remember what I said about wasting both our time?

I'm a true hedonist at heart. If something sounds like fun and I don't have any moral issues with it I'm probably going to do it. My sexual orientation is what I call "heteroflexible". Basically, I'm straight, but s**t happens. I'm currently involved in the swinger lifestyle. I enjoy it, but I'm not dependant on it. I may or may not choose to have a relationship inside of that. Right now I'm not necessarily looking for a full blown relationship. I'd honestly like to add an fwb or two to my current "rotation". Yes, I said it. I'm very up front about everything in my life. I love sex, and at this point I would like to be having it 2 to 3 times per day, if possible. I'm not, however, into anonymous sex. I like to get to know the people I'll be spending my time with and require that we have some type of positive connection. I'm selective regarding who I sleep with, and am not looking for a one night stand or something that will fizzle out in a week or two. I'm a "spend the night" kind of girl. As in I come over, we have some drinks, we do our thing, wake up in the middle of the night and do it again, wake up in the morning for one more round before jumping in the shower and heading off to work. If we're both interested in doing things together outside of that I'm open, but that's typically how I like the end of my day to go and the next to begin.

NOTE: Judging from my own experiences as well as those of females I've spoken with there's something guys just don't seem to grasp. Calling us baby, honey, sweetheart, cutie etc before getting to know us at all is not a compliment. It's actually somewhat derogatory. A word of advice, please don't assume every female is okay with this. Thank you.
What I’m doing with my life
Trying to make it from day to day without killing anyone! Just kidding :) Right now I have a job that pays well enough for me to live comfortably, but it's not a job I'll have forever. Trying to decide between going back to school or just using the training available to me and the job experience as a stepping stone toward bigger and better things.
I’m really good at
Seeing the "big picture", and taking it into account
Helping people think to think outside the box
Getting to the bottom of the pile of bs :-D
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Movies - Noise, Sin City, Spread, Requiem for a Dream, Sucker Punch, The Boys and Girls Guide to Getting Down, The Strangers, The Prestige, The Shape of Things, Chronicle - just to name a few.
Shows - House, The Walking Dead, Spartacus, Game of Thrones, The Boondocks, Shameless, House of Lies, Scandal, American Horror Story, House of Cards, American Dad, Bob's Burgers
Books - The Sleeping Beauty Trilogy by Anne Rice (Not what it sounds like. Trust me:) ) Anything historical, especially regarding religion and philosophy
Music - Mostly Hip-hop/R&B and some hard rock/heavy metal.
Food - Does chocolate count?
The six things I could never do without
The internet
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How much people allow the way others perceive them to affect the way they live their lives.
On a typical Friday night I am
Been going to the lifestyle club in Milford with a group of friends lately.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Ask me anything you'd like to know. I'm an open book.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 28–45
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
This sounds like you. Please say something more than "Hi, how are you?". No one likes a boring conversation. If we decide to exchange numbers I really prefer to talk rather than text when first getting to know someone. Texting just doesn't get the same information across that talking does. Plus, I hate typing page long messages and waiting for page long replies. We'll save each other a lot of time by just picking up the phone.