I am domestically partnered with truebabybloo and our two daughters. She's a good influence on the girls. As for myself...probably not so much.
I keep this profile through times of attachment and times I'm not attached. Seeing as how I have two children in my life, I shudder at the idea of becoming detached at this juncture. I suspect most people do the same these days, as it serves no good to lose a username, thus ending up forced to create a new virtual identity.
The tests are an amusing waste of time...well, the ones that aren't utterly inane are amusing. I've encountered a few user-written tests on this site where I've read through the questions and then immediately rated said test one star, if only for the inability to give the test a rating any lower.
Anyway, I am a polyamourist, which is a distinct animal not to be confused with a swinger. I believe - and have been faced - with plenty of evidence that monogamy is an unnatural state and quite possibly not the end-all and be-all of a relationship status that everyone has been led to believe. In any case, I have found myself able to fall in love with multiple people (albeit, always female, as any latent bisexuality I may have is at a threshold so low as to be effectively non-existent). As I said before, I'm not a swinger - no judgement call there, I just don't do casual very well. The best way to turn me on is to engage me mentally and emotionally as well as physically. In spite of all that being said, I'm not "walking the poly walk" as it were...nor am I really troubled enough by that fact to go out of my way to change it.
If you ever ask me to choose between you and my cats, I will always choose my cats.
I also have a bad habit of looking at profile multiple times in an attempt to decide whether or not to send a message. Sometimes I'll even save a profile with the intention of revisiting it and sending a well thought out message in the near future. I hate to send messages which aren't well thought out. If one is to communicate, one should make it count, correct?
Even after making contact I might visit a profile repeatedly...because I like looking at people who I think are pretty. Is that creepy? Yeah, that's probably creepy...
As an aside, let it be known that I like voluptuous women, fat women, BBWs, SSBBWs - pick an adjective or abbreviation. I'm not afraid to admit it either! I'll sing it from the rafters: bring me the hot fatties!
I am cutting, dark, and liberal