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ilstephen

52 / M / gay / Single

McHenry, Illinois

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 9" (1.75m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
Yes
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Aquarius but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Science / Tech / Engineering
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English

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I am Kind, Considerate, and Loving.

My Self-Summary

Managed to get into my fifties with a minimum of heavy baggage. I live alone, love movies, cooking, and reading. I was a math major in college so I guess I am somewhat a nerd. I get along with most people and would like to expand my circle of friends.

What I’m doing with my life

I'm a cost analyst by profession. I would like to find someone to spend the rest of my life with. It's difficult since I have a penchant for guys much younger than I am.

I’m really good at

Everybody that knows me says I'm really good at cooking.

The first things people usually notice about me

My light blue eyes.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books: DeCarte's Secret Notebook, Devil in the White City, The Scarlet Professor, To Kill a Mockingbird, The Geography Club, Candide, The Prince, Dream Boy, and many more I can't think of right now. Basically I read non-fiction that has something to do with mathematicians or history.
Movies: Fried Green Tomatoes, The Broken Hearts Club, Camp, Trick, Steele Magnolias, Terms of Endearment, The Morning Star, He Just Not That Into You, Latter Days, Almost Famous, my goodness the list could go on forever. If it's a chick-flick or a drama based on real life then I'm there.
Food: Most things Italian or Mexican. Some oriental.

The six things I could never do without

Home Theater
Friends
Computer
Cars
Home
Family

I spend a lot of time thinking about

If I'm ever going to find a young guy who's into me.

On a typical Friday night I am

At home with a movie or good book.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

Hmm, I don't know. I'm pretty much an open book.

You should message me if

If you find me interesting and would like to strike up a conversation then you should message me. If you are a young guy and find me hot then you should DEFINITELY message me. :-)