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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25-36
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 5:28pm
Asian, White
5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
Average build
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
My self-summary
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I’m an engineer and work for the government. . .my work is challenging and interesting but does not provide me with my “identity”; my relationships and activities outside of work largely determine “who I am.” I am a reserved person who can nevertheless be quietly intense and passionate about certain things although this is often not immediately apparent to people when they first meet me. I am usually a very logical, practical, and prudent person with virtually everything that I do in life, but I also appreciate and enjoy certain types of music and other art.
What I’m doing with my life
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I enjoy spending my free time in a variety of volunteer/community activities. I especially enjoy being part of the Civil Air Patrol. I’m a pilot and find flying in small airplanes to be both stimulating and relaxing. It’s especially exhilarating to take part in a search and rescue or disaster relief mission as it gives me a sense of fulfillment to serve my community and know that I’m doing something that may be assisting or relieving the suffering of others.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Most people who know me well would say I’m reliable, dependable, hard-working, organized, goal/task-oriented, and always try to do the “right thing” both at work and outside of work. I think many would regard me as charitable both with my money and time and always thinking of ways to help others.

I also enjoy making humorous or whimsical quips about various things that I see at work or elsewhere and generating a near unlimited supply of puns and other word plays that often require specific technical knowledge in order to be perceived as “funny.” Now, I assume that I’m "really good at this" and people aren’t just being polite when they laugh at my puns at work. . .
The first things people usually notice about me
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I have a very quiet, introspective, and serious demeanor when I first meet someone. It takes me a long time to “open up” and feel comfortable talking freely with a person that I’ve just met, especially a potential romantic partner.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Allen Guelzo’s “Abraham Lincoln: Redeemer President”, David McCullough’s “John Adams” and “Truman”, and virtually any book by Thomas Sowell. I occasionally read books by a variety of authors on Christian theology and the interaction/interplay between science and faith. Sometimes I will read techno-thriller novels by Tom Clancy. My favorite movies include Gladiator, Das Boot, and Amadeus. I enjoy classical music and Mozart is definitely my favorite composer. I like eating spicy/tasty foods in general with curry dishes being some of my favorite cuisine although there are other food types that I enjoy too.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A good night’s rest, caffeine during work days, lots of interesting books to read, functioning sodium/potassium pumps in all my cells, meaning to my life, and oxidative phosphorylation.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I am very task oriented and therefore much I spend much time thinking about how to solve the next project or challenge that I am dealing with at work or how to run a series of errands in the evenings and weekends in the most efficient way possible. I also think about a variety of random topics from time to time ranging from current events either locally or in other parts of the world, the most recent book that I read, a humorous conversation or event that I witnessed at work, a particular composition that I have played on the piano or heard performed somewhere else, and of course, women.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Catching up on e-mails, exercising, and reading interesting books.
You should message me if
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. . .you are single, have no children, and you’re seeking a potentially long-term relationship. Yes, I’m aware that most dating relationships do not end up lasting a lifetime, but it’s a reasonable goal to shoot for, and if we simply end up being good friends, that’s ok too. Since I’m a quiet guy, it would probably be helpful if you were somewhat extroverted or at least not particularly introverted.
You should not contact me if you are looking for a trendy person who is really into discussing “pop culture”, the latest fashion trends, fads, etc. I’m simply not interested in those things.