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40 M Bellevue, WA

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5′ 8″ (1.73m)
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Graduated from masters program
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My self-summary
Here are some adjectives that describe me:
Driven, Intelligent, Goal-oriented, Hard-Working, -This sounds like a resume, doesn’t it? – Sarcastic, Curious, Humorous, Logical, Insightful, Irreverent, Quick, Introspective, Challenge-driven, Ambitious, Loyal, Literal.

To help you remember, I’ve created the acronym DIGHSCHLIIQICALL. You’re welcome!

I’m open to possibilities and will talk to strangers, although I tend to go deep in conversation and connections with the few rather than superficial connections with the many. Having new experiences and exploring our world and how we interact (or don’t – thanks a lot, Facebook).

"Everyone should consider his body as a priceless gift from one whom he loves above all, as a marvelous work of art, of undescribable beauty and mastery beyond human conception, and so delicate and frail that a word, a breath, a look, nay, a thought, may injure it. "
-Nikola Tesla

Probably because I spend so much time sitting in front of a computer, and possibly because of the quote above, it’s important to me to be active. I enjoy golfing (usually), pickleball, snow skiing, traveling, sailing, engaging my mind (and equally important), disengaging my mind. It would be great to find someone who shares in some of those interests. If there is something that you’re passionate about, I’m eager to try new things.
What I’m doing with my life
I love this section! It is one of the things that endears OKC to me, because it helps keep me on track, especially reading some of the inspiring things that so many others are doing. Like many other career-oriented professionals, I can get caught up in the day-to-day details and occasionally lose sight of the bigger picture, such as forgetting to call that friend I’ve been meaning to contact, or even take time to re-examine my life. Balance is important to me.

Are you even reading this? Or did you skip right to the pictures? That's probably what I'd do if I thought the profile was getting too deep!

Currently, I’m checking off as many items from my bucket list as possible and re-examining my life. Within the last year, I have gotten SCUBA certification, taken up sailing, tied (but not broken… yet) my low round at golf, travelled to distant lands and won a super bowl (OK, so I didn't exactly do that directly, but I helped with my amazing 12th manliness!). There are many more that I want to experience or accomplish to help me grow in a manner that I’ve designed.
I’m really good at
Figuring things out.... eventually
Not stopping until I've figured it out!
Finding a parking place (it's a must have)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: I prefer non-fiction, because truth is often stranger than fiction. Current favorite is "The First American" by HW Brands. Constantly reading 1-5 books at any given time with more in the queue.

Movies: Searching for Bobby Fischer, Rounders, Fight Club, Caddyshack. In other words, movies that make you think / have a twist.

Shows: Don't have any TV programming, so can't really claim I've seen anything recently. However, Top Gear, Family Guy and South Park were favs. Planet Earth is sublime and unsurpassable. Hulu and YouTube are frequent stop -also, often find my way to a TED presentation.

Music: Not really sure what alternative means any more since it's now mainstream, but current favorite is Death Cab for Cutie whatever its genre.

Food: Mediterranean (T3 - almost any restaurant in NYC and Thai - hey, Thai TIEd for third!).
The six things I could never do without
Internet (that should count for 3, at least!)
Golf clubs
Predictive text on my phone for the random comedy of it
Water to play on, in, around, or under (sure, with and through as well)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
* Women - why do so many on OKC have a self portrait taken in their cars?
* Business ideas
* The future
* The past
* Why OK Cupid presents me with ads En Espanol. Is it my Latin flavor? Soy Norte Americano!
On a typical Friday night I am
Hard to say, because it depends on the week. You know how it is, one week: seeing a show, another: out with friends, next week: sacked out on the couch after a long week, then: on an amazing date (...with you? See what I did there? :) )
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I admit nothing. My secrets are closely guarded. I mean, what secrets? I don't have any. Dang! OK, I'm really glad the Seahawks beat the Denver Broncos.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 32–42
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You've gotten this far without running screaming from the Internet!!

You are an amazing, articulate, attractive, intelligent AND educated, funny, nice, woman who thinks that someone would be privileged to know. In other words, you're AAAIEFNPTK.

You didn't take a selfie in your car.

You have a picture of you and a tiger. To recap, selfie in car = BAD, tiger pic = GOOD!