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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 32-42
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last online
Today – 9:29am
5' 8" (1.73m)
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Post grad
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Despite how I was raised, I will talk to strangers (unless they are plugged in and have a perma-scowl), although I tend to go deep in conversation and connections with the few rather than superficial connections with the many. Having new experiences and exploring our world and how we interact (or don’t – thanks a lot, Facebook).

It’s important for me to be active to a) compensate for sitting at a desk all day and b) disengage my brain. I enjoy golfing (usually), pickleball, snow skiing, traveling, sailing, to name a few. It would be great to find someone who shares in some of those interests. If there is something that you’re passionate about, I’m eager to try new things.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I love this section! It is one of the things that endears OKC to me, because it helps keep me on track, especially reading some of the inspiring things that so many others are doing. Like many other career-oriented professionals, I can get caught up in the day-to-day details and occasionally lose sight of the bigger picture, such as forgetting to call that friend I’ve been meaning to contact, or even take time to re-examine my life. Balance is important to me.

Are you even reading this? Or did you skip right to the pictures? That's probably what I'd do if I thought the profile was getting too deep!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Figuring things out.... eventually
Not stopping until I've figured it out!
Finding a parking place (it's a must have)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: I prefer non-fiction, because truth is often stranger than fiction. Current favorite is "The First American" by HW Brands. Constantly reading 1-5 books at any given time with more in the queue.

Movies: Searching for Bobby Fischer, Rounders, Fight Club, Caddyshack. In other words, movies that make you think and/or have a twist.

Shows: Don't have any TV programming, so can't really claim I've seen anything recently. However, Top Gear, Family Guy and South Park were favs. Planet Earth is sublime and unsurpassable. Hulu and YouTube are frequent stop -also, often find my way to a TED presentation.

Music: Not really sure what alternative means any more since it's now mainstream, but current favorite is Death Cab for Cutie whatever its genre.

Food: gluten-free by necessity, Mediterranean, almost any restaurant in NYC, Thai, Mexican, Sushi
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Internet (that should count for 3, at least!)
Golf clubs
Predictive text on my phone for the random comedy of it
Water to play on, in, around, or under (sure, with and through as well)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
* Women - why do so many on OKC taken selfies in their cars?
* Business ideas
* The future
* The past
* Why OK Cupid presents me with ads En Espanol. Is it my Latin flavor? Soy Norte Americano
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hard to say, because it depends on the week. You know how it is, one week: seeing a show, another: out with friends, next week: at home unwinding after a long week, then: on an amazing date (...with you? See what I did there? :) )
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I admitted my glutenlessness. Sorry, that's all you're getting until I know you better.
You should message me if
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You've gotten this far without running screaming from the Internet!!

You are an amazing, articulate, attractive, intelligent AND educated, funny, nice, woman who thinks that someone would be privileged to know.