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85 M Neenah, WI

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 10:22pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Not at all
Buddhism, and laughing about it
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
How about we try things a little different? Look at:
You want to run screaming, we might not have much in common.

Explanations? Way too often, on here, I've gotten women with a recently emptied nest who think it would be Romantic to go out with an artist.

Nope. It isn't. You want Romance? Fall crazy in love with someone who's crazy in love with you. It exists not in Romance novels or tropes. It exists in an interaction you build.

To me, I'd rather scare them off before I need to lower them gently down. I have no desire to hurt anyone or anything. It is very hard to let them down without making them hurt.

So there you are. I'm me, a wonderful, kind, rotten person who likes to duct tape women to water towers for shots. (Strange, I'm not at all interested in bondage. Guess I'm weird.) I'd like to say more: if you say nothing about yourself, don't bother. I don't care if you look like Heather Nova. (Well . . . it'd be pretty cool.) If you could handle hanging out under a comforter on a Friday watching a dumb movie, I might talk to you. As long as you speak not Sanskrit. My Sanskrit is really rusty, as is my Latin. Don't even get into my Greek; I can almost order a beer. Or a ritual execution.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a photographer, artist and very eclectic. I'm also in school full-time to learn how to run a printing press . . . bills need to be paid. I also write. I'm also dumb enough to work on cars.
I’m really good at
A number of things. It seems more a question of what you want to be good at, than what you are. (How's that for evasive?)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Mirrored Heavens, A Fire Upon the Deep, Julian, Count Zero, Neuromancer, The Persian Boy, Exultant, Holy Fire, Involution Ocean; those would be books . . . Blade Runner, anything by Ridley Scott or Terry Gilliam. I definitely like Spartacus and am REALLY looking forward to the new season.

My taste in music is rather strange; I like Skinny Puppy, Paul VanDyk, Mazy Star, Crystal Method, Johnny Cash, the Blue Man Group and the Cowboy Junkies. Go figure.

I'll eat almost anything as long as it doesn't contain turnips, rutabaga or peas. (Though I like split pea soup; I'm not sure about that one, except it seems the sugars must caramelize, changing the taste. And I like pea pods. I must have been frightened by a vicious pea when I was young. If you haven't picked up on it . . . I hate peas.) I love sushi, sashimi, steak, shark, trout, orange roughy, turkey, humus, tabouli and asparagus. (Not at the same time. Or in a stew.)
The six things I could never do without
1) Love

2) Life

3) Dogs

4) My camera

5) Books

6) Music
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Existence. Philosophy. Religion. Science. How to do things right.
On a typical Friday night I am
Good question. Used to be out dancing, but I seem to be in a transitional phase right about now.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Hhhmm . . . I'll admit to anything. I'm not terribly secretive. If I'm not too ashamed to do it, I shouldn't be ashamed to admit it, right? You may ask, if you'd like.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 36–48
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
If you'd like to?