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imagine--that

49 / F / Straight / Single

New York, New York

Her Details

Last Online
Today – 3:58pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 3″ (1.60m).
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism but not too serious about it
Sign
Pisces and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English, Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
I'm looking forward to building something new... feeling that sense of excitement and contentment...the alchemy of attraction, intellectual stimulation and friendship.

...A little bit about me...I have varied interests & I love anything which is creatively inspired - film, art (high/low), books, photography, etc....Love to read, frequent art museums, see movies opening weekend, try new restaurants, watch HBO Sunday nights. I was born with the travel gene...so get the passport ready. I'm more intrigued with places & things that fly under the radar before going mainstream but still into the pop culture zeitgeist. I'm intellectually curious without an elitist attitude.

I'm sensitive but, more importantly, I extend sensitivity to others...ah, but I do have backbone! I'm a great listener, a caring friend & pretty intuitive - not afraid of vulnerability.

Silly & smart...my silly side can find the funny in anything...I love intelligent humor - e.g., Jon Stewart, Stephen Colbert, Bill Maher...but no humor snob here...I like the stupid(smart) stuff, too. I'm a liberal & I embrace the label proudly. I don't understand narrow-minded people.

I run several times a week to keep fit & for that great endorphin high. I've got a youthful demeanor & appearance...definitely young at heart & in spirit - there is something to the whole mind/body connection thing.

I give a lot of myself and have a nurturing nature. Empathy is my favorite word. I can be introspective at times and am self-aware. I love intimate, meaningful conversation but enjoy being out in social situations, too. We are often surprised by those with whom we click so I avoid the 'type' thing.

I'm independent, but I'm happiest when sharing life with someone when it feels right. It's about enjoying mutual interests & celebrating the differences...& complementing one another's multi-faceted personalities. I love to be with someone who raises the level of my game and I his.

Admittedly, it takes some time to truly know & understand someone, but ultimately, I want to feel THAT connection - where we Both Just Know.
What I’m doing with my life
Ha!...the ultimate existential question...
I’m really good at
being the voice of reason
The first things people usually notice about me
My soft voice...my personal style...that I look younger than I am...
how petite I am sans the high heels
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I'm adventurous when it comes to food. I have a penchant for ethnic foods - probably a result of my travels. Spicy is never too spicy. I'm a film fanatic - indie films, foreign films & docs along with select mainstream movies. I do get to the theater... musical theater & true 'play' plays, e.g., The Heiress, Once. The Book of Mormon is a must-see!...beyond hilarious. Music is anything with a great beat for running, pop, 80's tunes (please don't judge), iconic classic rock, et al. I'm an avid reader & can while away the hours in full absorption of a good book/great story. I do like to shop...we can blame it on the x chromosome. Fave Book: The Unbearable Lightness of Being (Milan Kundera). Fave Movie: like choosing between ones children - can't do it. Fave TV Shows: Homeland, Girls, Game of Thrones (great 3rd season so far!), Real Time & Daily Show.
The six things I could never do without
Clearly can't take this question too literally because we can all do without 'things' but, in the spirit of the question, here's my list:
1-Chocolate 2-Love & Affection 3-Running 4-Integrity
5-Sense of Humor! 6-Friendship 6A-Passport
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Some personal musings/private thoughts: the world in which we live...what's going on beneath the surface of things... my future...my nieces whom I cherish as if my own...my parents as they age...being kind...growing a thicker skin...the upside/downside of perfection...why people need to have more compassion...my next travel destination...The Perfect Kiss...realizing how quickly time passes so gotta have fun & be joyful in proportion to more serious stuff...and then there's the eternal female quest for the perfect pair of jeans (as vacuous as that sounds!)
On a typical Friday night I am
glad that it's finally Friday & in relaxation mode after the frenetic work week; inclined to stay home & be cozy but distractions are welcome!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Really? This space intentionally left blank:)
I’m looking for
  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 45–59
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You are a quality person...smart, nice, substantive & want something real. You want to be with someone who is sweet, playful & has some depth. You sense a connection (a veiled reference to that ubiquitous term "soul mate"). The real magic - the real knowing - happens in person... Not looking for perfect - just perfect for me.