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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–100
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Oct 4
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
6' 2" (1.88m)
Body Type
Not at all
Christianity but it’s not important
Post grad
Might want kids
English (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Thanks for visiting...I am a quirky, warm, creative, goofy, serious, caring, supportive human who strives to make the world around me a little better. I am openminded opinionated, accepting and compassionate and strive to be honest and kind. I love to learn and experience cool things and share those things with the people around me. I am trusting and trustworthy and at times spacey...not Kevin...I consider myself a democratic socialist so politically I am very liberal and care deeply about the world and what's happening on it...and not...I love to hang out with...learn and laugh with...share life with loving bright people.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am working hard at being the best human musician educator and friend I can be.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
certainly not self-promotion but...

Making people feel good about themselves...sharing ideas and experiences. I can motivate students to learn and I play the saxophone. I can get people to laugh...even when it's at me.

I work very hard at being supportive of the people in my life.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I cannot spell...well I guess that's not the first...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Authors...Vonnegut, Zinn, Robbins, Chomsky, Greene, Klein...

Music...Coltrane, Stravinsky, Miles, Beatles, Jarrett, Radiohead, Wilco, Dylan, NRBQ, The Roches, Billie, Frank, Steve Coleman, Liebman...integrity, creativity, breadth....many, many, many more...I LOVE MUSIC....

Movies...I love old classics, documentaries, indies, wacked art films, ...Holly Grail, Brazil, anything with Peter Sellers, Katherine Hepburn, Buster Keaton was a genius, most Woody Allen...The River of Life was wonderful...many many others

I redirected my life recently- thus I eat very healthy...have lost nearly 160 pounds since Christmas 2013...more to go...but I love all types....just no more soda, junk food...etc...

Philosophy...Zinn, Gandhi, MLK, Giroux, Jesus(the sermon on the mount is socialism), Pokey, Coltrane, Beatles, Feldenkrais, Meditation.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The people in my life
My Love Bird
My Saxophone
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Love...All You Need is Love
How to make the lives of the people around me better and enjoyable..
How to improve myself
How to get better at the things I do
How to get my students to learn
The world and the injustice in it and how to improve the many problems...climate change, the assault on education, women's rights, and workers rights...wanting peace and equality.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Doing something rediculously cool, endlessly hip, and infinately fun with somone like you...going to a concert or hearing live music at a the Green Mill...or at a movie, watching a dvd, working, hanging out with people much smarter than me...eating good food...sharing ideas...laughing...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out! not can ask me anything....but then it won't be private anymore...I am very open.
You should message me if
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You think we could add something to each other's lives. I am open to new friends as well as obviously looking for a romantic partner as I do like love.