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55 Newport, RI Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 32–58
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Catholicism, but not too serious about it
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Politics / Government
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs
English, French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I hope to put the time in with the right person. If you're willing to invest the time you will enjoy an affable personality, a quick sense of humor and an educated, gentle, charming man. I have many life experiences and tales. Very loquacious and an empathetic listener I look forward to sharing conversations with you. I want to make it clear that I am married but I encourage you to read on...

I can steer my way through the wine list or navigate a boat to Antigua. I am not afraid to get on the dance floor despite my two left feet. I have the opportunity to spend quality time with you on weekends. I like to dine out but I would be just as content uncorking a Cabernet and assembling a nice dinner with you. What shall we make?

I am 55, 6', 230#, Caucasian, college educated, non-smoker. I am a little chubby but otherwise pretty fit and hit the gym twice a week.. I won't be confused with some porn star either but very passionate with a total focus on your pleasure. I am OK looking (cute actually) at least I never had trouble getting a date back in the day. I am in a marriage with zero intimacy - not my call... This sounds contradictory but she is a good room mate and willing to look the other way. She has given me the green light to look outside our marriage. I just don't want to rub her nose in it or embarrass her/us. Otherwise our relationship is pretty much baked. However, I am just not ready for a life of celibacy. My hygiene is good and expect the same. Routinely tested for HIV (neg) via my work (not promiscuous - not a playboy).

I hope to find one open minded lady with similar circumstances or too busy for all the constraints of a full time, traditional relationship. Please be over 32 and under 58. Down the line and after we have established some mutual trust we can swap photos. I don't want anyone to get hurt including you.

If you really care to strike up a friendship with an energetic, bright, witty and passionate guy - give me a holla! Maybe we are both swimming in the same river. Hey, it's not a slam dunk with me either as I am pretty selective too.

I am emotionally starved and despite a thick layer of friends pretty lonely inside... Do not interpret that as desperate:-)

Take a chance and drop a line back - I would love to hear from you!!! I can handle polite rejection and I expect that you're a grown up too. Oh yeah - Please have a sense of humor!
What I’m doing with my life
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Striving to improve...!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking, sailing, conversation, fixing things, calming situations, providing pleasure and defusing bombs (I always know which wire to cut)
The first things people usually notice about me
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is that pesky antler growing out of the right side of my skull.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Music taste - Abba to Zeppelin.

Books - Victor Hugo, Sebastian Junger, any inspiring biography and non-fiction

Movies - Action, comedy, history and historically/accurately based period films

Food - Satisfying my eclectic and adventurous palette is an on going ambition, any seafood. PB&J works for me too:-)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Oxygen, water, food, red wine, my steel trap memory and... I can't remember the other one!?!?!?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
what to write here...!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At the White House playing checkers with Barack Obama
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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My antler comes in handy sometimes!!!
You should message me if
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If you care to incorporate someone cool and fun into your life. Maybe you are curious and wish to learn more about me. I would love to hear from you. I am begging to find just one special friend. I have much to share!!!