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31 San Diego, CA Man


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  • Ages 25–34
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last online
Dec 31, 2014
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body type
Trying to quit
Has a kid

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I don't ever know what to say on these things, but a little about me I am a San Diego native and love it here. I just got back from Cleveland (yes Ohio, do not ask me why I was there) after being in hell the past 3 months I had to leave. I couldn't stand it out there, the weather was one thing but the people are just too intense.

I am a laid back guy and just like to hang out and have a good time, not always on the move and I don't anticipate or plan my nights or days in advance. I absolutly LOVE music and would die if sound was a sense I would have to live without. If I had to choose between being blind or deaf, it would be blind in a heartbeat. Plenty of blind musicians out there but the only deaf one I can think of was Beethoven (and he wasn't always deaf, he went deaf so he knew what music sounded like) I am into everything from Thelonious Monk and Billie Holiday to the Velvet Underground, even the solo albums of Lou Reed and John Cale (that is anything before 1980), Tom Waits is something I can listen to any time any day in any mood I am in!

I do have a 10 year old son named Azrael who is hands down the coolest kid in the world! I know I am suppose to say that being his father and all, but with that said he really is!!!! I have never met any 10 year old who can sing and quote the MC5 and Rolling Stones, and actually love the Simpsons (the older episodes, seasons 1-8) and hate the new ones as I have for the past decade and counting.
What I’m doing with my life
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As I said, I recently just moved back here from Cleveland, and beside raising my son I am working at a restaurant as a server bartender etc... I use to have my own floral business before I left, but after working seven days a week for eight years I felt I needed a change.
I still like flowers. Yes i said it, i'm a man that likes flowers. Not to recieve them, I like them like I like the ocean. I guess I'm a sucker for natural beauty. But I can make a kick ass bouquet! It was actually one of the reasons I moved to Cleveland to save money. I mean I lived in a two bedroom duplex house with a huge balcony and huge space for $575, but I came to a relization tht I perfer great weather and looking for a job in my home town, as oppose to the most fucked up weather I have been in while looking for a job=) You need a car in Cleveland and I didn't have one out there.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being the best father to my 10 year old lil man. Everyday observations.......seriously though, what do most people put in this box? I mean I am pretty great at collecting rare records!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Is this really a question that I awnser or a question for those "people"? Possibly my blue eyes and or eyelashes,girls always compliment me on them,I don't really get it? They say they want them,well they can have them,they do get in my way and are annoying sometimes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books.....Catcher in the Rye, yeah I know totally corny and obvious but hey, I gave my son Holdens name (well its his middle name because I liked Azrael better) and pretty much anything by the Beat Generation (Kerouac,Ginsberg,Burroughs) Bukowski is another great! I love to laugh, so David Sederis would be another.

Movies: To narrow it down, Documentaries. I love them so much that I once watched one about The Salton Sea and its origins.....well, it was narrated by John Waters wich was a perfect combination. (If you ever want to see it, it is called "Plauges and Pleasures on the Salton Sea")

I do not watch television but recently got into "The League" on Netflix only because it has one of the title charachters Stu from Life and Times of Tim, well that is a great show on its own, HBO keeps canceling it and bringing it back.

Music is something that I could talk about, write about, describe in many ways and go on and on about for days. So if you wanna talk music I am always up for it!

Food is a random thing to add to this question but I am a vegetarian. A good bean and cheese burrito is my achilles heel. That and a beer and I am a happy man.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
So this is a stranded on a desert island question?....(if I was stranded on an island I would already have one thing I couldn't live without, the beach!!!)
My son
The opposite sex
And every remake of any cheesy horror movie
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to awnser this question.....
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either with my lil man or hanging with friends someplace in North Park or University Heights area.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
This is a contradicting question......
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You want to: but if you have any pictures of yourself in a limo or at a club or looking all classy like you just took that picture before going to any club,chances are we are going to have not too much in common. Dont get me wrong, some of you gals are cute but im just one of those guys that goes for personality.......oh and aren't a guy.

Also if you were as sad as I was when you heard the news of Lou Reeds death!

I'm completely all for gay rights along with marriage,I just don't swing that way fellas.

So guys,good luck with your endeavors but I won't respond to ya. No offense.