Ladies please be aware...I will not entertain the idea of messaging with you on Okc for a day plus more without hearing your voice. For all I know we may have a virtual connection and not when I talk to you on the phone. Or maybe you sound just like me. I'm not here to waste your time nor mine. If I give my number or you give me yours...it's not to continue what we've been doing on okc...texting...we coulda keep it on okc if that was the case.
There's no limit to the conversation we may have, for we're grown.
Be fun, be you, be cool, be real, and live each day like it's your last.
As you can see...my previous relationship lasted more than a year plus more. Which means little Johnny has not been hopping all over the place or going in and out of caves.
Nothing turns me on more than a woman who can stimulate my mind verbally.
In case you haven't noticed...I am a very simple young Black Man, I do not have time for drama nor to hear how bad your ex was, he is not the one I'm going to date and maybe you were the crazy one in the first place.
I've had/have the opportunity to date many women in the process I have learned a lot about myself and the type of woman I would like to be with.
Ladies, please understand it's never ok to FBI or Policing me after a date or two. Maybe I went to bed early, that's why I did not call or answer your call.
I understand many of you will have problems or comments with or on my profile, I will be waiting.
Not all of you will like the way I look, I will let you know how much that hurts me.
To many of you, I may seem to be a challenge, please don't take me as one. I know what I want and I will not allow someone else tell me what's good for me or what I want.
All of us are on here for the same reason, hoping to meet someone who may then become someone special. Ladies, understand a date is the opportunity to get to know someone, in the same manner, to allow that someone to get to know you. It will not happing if you already made up your mind before meeting that person.
A man already knows his job is to make you feel comfortable in the date and only way he will be able to do so only if you make him comfortable. (I KNOW THAT MAY SOUND CONFUSING TO SOME OF YOU) let me explain: 1- do not go on a date thinking he will be the perfect man. 2- go on the date with an open mind, just like you were meeting a friend and you are up for a good time. 3- don't make the man feels like he is being audition if you make him feel like that then he will play the role you want him to. 4- don't talk about your ex, he really does not care. 5- don't try to make the date about your life story, usually that's for the second or third date.
Finally, one thing I had to do and I think all of you should do too is. Being single is a process: it's a time for us to clear our heart, mind and soul. We need to leave the hole empty, empty for love, empty for that quality time, empty for that gentle touch of that special someone, reject it when you feeling horny, wait for that someone so that you will feel like you are in heaven when you finally get it.
And what I'm trying to say is. Stop stop messing around with a friend with benefit, stop messing around with your ex. Be completely single, so that when that special someone comes, your heart will be open, you will not have to force or trying to figure out if that person is the one. Your heart will tell you so if he is or not.
I have not been nor will I ever be the perfect man but I have learned so much in my past to be close to perfect. And I’m learning each in every day.