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33 Wellington, FL Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24–33
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 3:09pm
Black, Other
5′ 9″ (1.76m)
Body Type
Masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Wants kids
Has dogs
English, French, Italian

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My self-summary
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LET'S GET TO IT........... This profile was created by me and its purpose is not to entertain you nor to challenge you, but to serve as a window of the man I am. Please be respectful as you will get the same in return. Be open minded for I'm not here to judge.

Ladies please be aware...I will not entertain the idea of messaging with you on Okc for a day plus more without hearing your voice. For all I know we may have a virtual connection and not when I talk to you on the phone. Or maybe you sound just like me. I'm not here to waste your time nor mine. If I give my number or you give me's not to continue what we've been doing on okc...texting...we coulda keep it on okc if that was the case.

There's no limit to the conversation we may have, for we're grown.

Be fun, be you, be cool, be real, and live each day like it's your last.

As you can previous relationship lasted more than a year plus more. Which means little Johnny has not been hopping all over the place or going in and out of caves.

Nothing turns me on more than a woman who can stimulate my mind verbally.

In case you haven't noticed...I am a very simple young Black Man, I do not have time for drama nor to hear how bad your ex was, he is not the one I'm going to date and maybe you were the crazy one in the first place.

I've had/have the opportunity to date many women in the process I have learned a lot about myself and the type of woman I would like to be with.
Ladies, please understand it's never ok to FBI or Policing me after a date or two. Maybe I went to bed early, that's why I did not call or answer your call.

I understand many of you will have problems or comments with or on my profile, I will be waiting.

Not all of you will like the way I look, I will let you know how much that hurts me.

To many of you, I may seem to be a challenge, please don't take me as one. I know what I want and I will not allow someone else tell me what's good for me or what I want.

All of us are on here for the same reason, hoping to meet someone who may then become someone special. Ladies, understand a date is the opportunity to get to know someone, in the same manner, to allow that someone to get to know you. It will not happing if you already made up your mind before meeting that person.

A man already knows his job is to make you feel comfortable in the date and only way he will be able to do so only if you make him comfortable. (I KNOW THAT MAY SOUND CONFUSING TO SOME OF YOU) let me explain: 1- do not go on a date thinking he will be the perfect man. 2- go on the date with an open mind, just like you were meeting a friend and you are up for a good time. 3- don't make the man feels like he is being audition if you make him feel like that then he will play the role you want him to. 4- don't talk about your ex, he really does not care. 5- don't try to make the date about your life story, usually that's for the second or third date.

Finally, one thing I had to do and I think all of you should do too is. Being single is a process: it's a time for us to clear our heart, mind and soul. We need to leave the hole empty, empty for love, empty for that quality time, empty for that gentle touch of that special someone, reject it when you feeling horny, wait for that someone so that you will feel like you are in heaven when you finally get it.

And what I'm trying to say is. Stop stop messing around with a friend with benefit, stop messing around with your ex. Be completely single, so that when that special someone comes, your heart will be open, you will not have to force or trying to figure out if that person is the one. Your heart will tell you so if he is or not.

I have not been nor will I ever be the perfect man but I have learned so much in my past to be close to perfect. And I’m learning each in every day.
What I’m doing with my life
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Catching bad guys, saving children from burning buildings, flying around the world at lightning speeds...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm Black and I'm a guy or just a Black guy or Black male....something like that.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Doing whatever I want. I don't party a whole lot anymore. When I go out, I go hard, but I'm usually too busy and have too much shit to do Saturday morning and afternoon to go party every weekend. I try to always do something adventurous or new when I get the chance, but that's usually early afternoons and early evenings.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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It's private
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
1. a) You can be a cool, laid back gym partner in the Greenacres area.

1. b) You are the girl who isn’t afraid to laugh at herself, who still manages to pull off the worst of jokes, and can effortlessly brighten a room with the sound of her laughter.

2. You are the girl who is self-aware and recognizes her own flaws. The girl who continually strives to better herself.

3. You are the girl who is comfortable in her own skin; the girl that doesn’t let her insecurities stand in the way of her happiness. Be the girl who knows it’s okay to have insecurities but it’s not okay to give those insecurities the power to eat away at her.

4. You are the girl whom friends can call at 2 in the morning with a problem. The girl willing to drop everything for the people she loves. Don’t, however, be the girl who lets people walk all over her.

5. You are the girl that has faith in something bigger than yourself. It can be faith in anything — just always have some type of faith.

6. The girl who can take a compliment graciously.

7. The girl who is humble in her achievements.

8. The girl that wears her heart on her sleeve, who is capable of being vulnerable, who can live without fear of being brokenhearted. The girl that can have the strength to be hurt but not broken.

9. The girl who is compassionate and empathetic; who will lend a hand when she can to a complete stranger, and who will listen without a judgmental ear.

10. The girl who sees the best in people, but does not ignore the worst.