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imjustmemania

52 F Shreveport, LA

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Catholicism, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from med school
Job
Medicine
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Has dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
IF CHRISTIAN AND CONSERVATIVE AREN'T WHAT YOU'RE LOOKING FOR, OR ARE TRAITS TO WHICH YOU OBJECT, PLEASE DISREGARD WHAT MY PICTURES LOOK LIKE ;-)

I love music and concerts; especially rock music. Good food and good fun go hand in hand. I'm a chiropractic physician (that wasn't listed in 'education', so med school was the closest choice!). I'm free-spirited and love to do new things. I enjoy going out and dancing, even if I have to dance alone while my friend watches! I enjoy dressing sophisticatedly, subtly sexy which expresses my personality as well. I'm intelligent, but not a know-it-all (I was a member of MENSA at the age of 15, but doubt seriously I could pass the test today!)

I have been, but am no longer controlling OR clingy. I've been with the men that enabled those ugly things in me...the too passive or too aggressive types. I've been on my own for over two years and divorced since May 29, 2014. I've now returned to my true self. It's a journey, not a destination, so I know there's still work to be done. "Be patient; God's not finished with me yet!". I believe that the only mistakes in life are the experiences from which we don't learn something in order to grow. I've rediscovered my vulnerability, my strength, my dignity, my radiance, my passion, romance (my own appreciation for it; not receiving it) and devotion. In essence...my 'beauty' and femininity!

I'm a veteran (served USN active duty as a corpsman, USAFR as a medic, LANG medic and USNR corpsman) and a member of the VFW and American Legion. I'm also a card-carrying member if the RNC and take my conservative values towards politics seriously. I own a .38 Taurus (but, would trade it for a 1911 .45 and will be getting my CCW license soon) Both ears are pierced twice, as well as my nose and navel. NO ink!
What I’m doing with my life
I'm currently only working part time, so my schedule is flexible. I live alone and have a 22 year old daughter. I live in a rural area on family property just south of the city, but would jump at the chance to relocate...possibly even expatriate. I have a Lhasa apso who is diabetic, just turned 13, yet looks and behaves like a 5 year old...as well as a cat that I consider mine even though he comes and goes as he pleases!
I’m really good at
I'm exceptionally good at my job as a chiropractic physician. I'm one of those fortunate people who has the kind of work that I'd continue to do, even if I won the lottery....I'd just do it pro bono! I'm good at nurturing and making people feel at ease. I've been told that I'm good at communicating and explaining things. I do love to educate my patients and actually did lecturing for a while several years ago. I'm also a pretty good cook; I REALLY enjoy dancing! No one has ever said I'm either good OR bad at that...I just enjoy it :-)
The first things people usually notice about me
The first thing people usually notice about me is my smile and my eyes.....sometimes my cheekbones (that's what they say, anyway!)
I'm fairly fit, so I've come to learn that both women and men compliment me on my physique, as well :)
I don't go to the gym, do work out to videos at home sometimes; all the rest is just genetics and tossing around patients twice my size as a living for hours in a day :-)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
My favorite movie is Last of the Mohicans and understanding WHY reveals a lot about me. I simply love the way the movie transcends the historical fiction of the novel by making it an excellent romantic adventure.

I voraciously devour books by the hundreds and couldn't possibly name a favorite. Some include: I Could Never Be So Lucky Again: the autobiography of Jimmy Doolittle (he's a relative and led a thrilling life!), The Stand, The Shack, Crossroads, Captivating and Wild At Heart, The Mark of the Lion trilogy, anything by Dean Koontz (especially the Odd Thomas books), anything by James Patterson, Ken Follett and most Stephen King, Escher, Godel and Bach; Decision Points...to name a few. I've just begun to read The Bible in Contemporary Language and find I'm enjoying it more than I expected! It's not translated from the KJV, but from the original Greek and Hebrew.

I love watching Penny Dreadful, True Blood, Supernatural, Spartacus, Merlin, The Walking Dead, Lost Girl, Fringe, Person of Interest, Being Human, Rizzoli and Isles, Duck Dynasty, Hawaii Five-O, Game of Thrones, Warehouse 13, Bones, Anger Management, Big Bang Theory and Two and a Half Men. I also STILL enjoy watching the cartoons of my childhood...especially Bugs Bunny, Tom and Jerry and Foghorn Leghorn :-)
I love ALL kinds of food. Mexican is probably my favorite, simply because there are so many great Mexican places here. I love a great petite filet with asparagus, bernaise and crab meat (Oscar style), or Chilean sea bass from a great steakhouse. Also crazy about a couple of versions of shrimp and grits and fried calamari served locally. My favorite chili is my own: something I've been calling north LA wild game surf 'n turf chili....it has venison AND alligator meat in it!!
The six things I could never do without
The six things I could never do without are:
My ever-changing and developing relationship with God, my family, my vocation, my friends, good books and great food.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I spend a lot of time thinking about my work as it relates to what's going on with the patients under my care. I also think a lot about the changes that have occurred in this country as a result of the current administration and how it's going to affect my life and the lives of those about whom I love and care in the future. Those things lead right back to having me thinking of leaving the area and, possibly, the country sometime in the next few years. At the very least, disappearing off onto some privately owned land of some friends of mine if the 'fecal material hits the oscillator' much sooner than for what I've planned and takes me by surprise!!
On a typical Friday night I am
On a typical Friday night I am home watching television, snuggling with my dog (sometimes my cat) and/or reading my latest Nook download. Saturday night is usually my socializing and dancing night!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
The most private thing that I'm willing to admit are the things I've already mentioned.
Anything MORE personal might be revealed after I've gotten to know someone better. I really don't have any 'skeletons' in my closet or a sordid past. All of my photos are natural, not enhanced and either within a few days, weeks or months. I try to update them as frequently as possible.
I’m looking for
  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 38–56
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends
You should message me if
Honestly, it'd be just great if I could meet a guy who sincerely thinks that he'd be capable of looking past my outward appearance and take the time to listen to what I say and pay attention to how I feel; to learn who I am as a person. I've had many of my friends and family tell me that I'm as beautiful on the inside as I am on the outside. I'd like someone to really observe whether they think that's true or not before continuing. It really hurts to have someone 'fall head over heels in love' with me, tell me that they're 'crazy' about me, put me through a storybook romance and then just disappear without me ever knowing why. Been there, done that....don't even want the t-shirt! Lol

After much careful consideration, I've decided to list some reasons why you should NOT message me first. If any of this makes me come across as picky, maybe I've been around long enough to accept that. There are simply some things I refuse to compromise. Please do NOT message me if:
- you are not Caucasian.
- you are not Christian.
- you are less than 5 ft 8 (I would be taller than you if I were in heels)
- you are liberal in your views on religion, sex or politics
- you are less than 38 years old; I'd be old enough to have given birth to you. I think it's beautiful if you truly have an 'old soul'. It just won't balance out with the actual time you've spent living life.
- your pictures are from so far away that I can't see your face. Same goes for pics with glasses, hats or not smiling. I'd like to think that if we ever met in person, I'd be able to recognize you from across a room. You'll notice that my pics leave nothing to the imagination in that regard.

You SHOULD message me if you honestly think the things I've said about myself might be compatible with you and aren't politically, morally or otherwise offended by anything I've said. I AM a work in progress and have much to learn, and I'm not likely to completely change who I am any time soon. I'm educated and fairly well-traveled (western Europe three times, central America three or four times and Southeast Asia once) so it would probably be best if you've experience some of this, as well. This doesn't mean you have to have an 'alphabet soup' of fancy degrees after your name on linen business cards, OR a fully stamped passport. LIFE is a terrific educator; especially for the heart and soul of a man. I'm fit, so I appreciate that in others.
I want to be sought after, not stalked; a challenge, not a fight. You don't necessarily HAVE to have hunted, fished, paddled a boat, ridden a horse or trained a dog, or chopped firewood or been in a fight lately, or ever. I just want someone I know COULD do those things, including fight for or rescue me if necessary. (Basically, someone who would make a great partner for a zombie apocalypse or some other similar challenge for survival!) I'm intelligent and of strong character AND I'd like to be around someone who neither wants to suppress that, nor lean on me because it it. Someone in control who's not controlling. Someone who will come to my rescue....whether it's a creepy bug, a difficult situation or an offensive person. Someone who draws out and unveils the beauty in me; not necessarily with words, either. I respond much better to having someone make me feel that I'm beautiful to him by the way he treats me with chivalry or a tender caress than to hear how 'hot, sexy, fine or gorgeous' he thinks I am. I still appreciate the comments; they just mean more when followed up or accompanied by more. Someone who puts me at ease and with whom I can sense that in once it's happened because I can tell that they are at ease around me. Someone who doesn't think I'm 'too much'. Someone I can look at and KNOW you've got what it takes; you've shown me everything and, for me, it's enough. Someone to be my Last of the Mohicans or Braveheart 'hero'!!!
(More men really should watch those movies and take clues from the romantic aspects alone, just for a viewing or two, and put the history and violence on a back burner for a bit.) There's a LOT to be learned :-)