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33 Oakland, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 1:57pm
Black, Native American, White
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and very serious about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs

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My self-summary
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I'm a passionate person. I spend my time doing things I'm genuinely invested in and have always been able to live that way.

I'm from the Bay and have lived in Oakland for most of my life. I feel thankful to live in California everyday and I love the small town feel of my immediate vicinity. When I get claustrophobic I go on adventures. I'm actively working on living in the present and putting myself in the path of new experiences
What I’m doing with my life
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my track record is to get restless quickly in a career and it's been a few permutations... I currently work with adults with disabilities and their caregivers. It's an interesting job that has taught me a lot about the vast continuum of the human experience and has given me more clarity of purpose then I had before. I also have what I would consider a long term creative practice. It's better discussed in person.

I also have hobbies that I explore and lots of close friends that I see regularly. and I have introvert tendencies so I spend a lot of time lost in my own thoughts.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm a pretty active listener. I'm also very adaptable.

i'm also usually able to rally when someone wants to go out, which qualifies as a skill in my book.

I'm really good at being understated, which makes me bad at listing my attributes.
The first things people usually notice about me
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i don't know.... Probably my apparent racial ambiguity. Random strangers attempt to guess ethnicity every single day. I also must appear approachable to random strangers.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I'm open. I have really eclectic tastes and too many favorites to mention. In general I like and seek out things that feel soulful.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
the basics for survival
social interaction
alone time
exposure to creativity
some sort of vice
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I live in downtown Oakland and tend to spend a lot of money within my 4 block radius, although i'm always seeking out something less familiar
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I wanna know what love is
You should message me if
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you're down to earth and friendly and you think we could have an interesting conversation. And you have a sense of humor about yourself and the world.

It would also be cool if you know of a fun place to go that I haven't been to before.