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53 Champaign, IL Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 45–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Mar 30
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body type
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Doesn’t want kids
Has dogs
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hell yes!
That is my motto.
I live to constantly learn and understand.
I teach Special Ed at the high school level working with the most emotionally distressed kids.
I perform Improv comedy with a local troupe.
Other hobbies are stained glass creation and cake decorating.
I also love to shoot pool!
My favorite season is summer as I love to be in the water as much as possible.
In the winter, my fireplace and a good book are in order.
I love to lose myself to nature while walking through and admiring a park or the woods.
I'm a very creative person and always looking for places to enjoy the arts, music and performance.
I'm a dog lover but adore most animals.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
After allowing the corporate world to suck the life out of me for 25 years, I have found my calling and true passion in teaching Special Education at one of our local high schools.
My path has recently changed from working with the most physically disabled kids to working with those kids who are the most emotionally abused.
Although I live a reasonable and logical lifestyle, I also live in the moment.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Teaching, period.
It doesn't matter if the student is 3 or 80.
I am a good communicator, mediator and friend.
I'm loyal, determined, upbeat, high energy and low maintenance.
I am an accomplished event planner and have chaired the largest art show/fundraiser in the Champaign area for the past 3 years.
Volunteering. I average 100 hours of volunteerism per year.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My size. It seems perplexing to the general public of men that big girls can also be beautiful, sexy and confident.
Those are my next qualities.
I would also list my smile, my ability to make everyone comfortable in any situation and my laugh.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
My all-time favorite movie is The Color Purple. What an awesome testament to humans overcoming great adversities.
Currently, I'm on book 13 of the Stephanie Plum novels. What a hoot!
As for music, I am a product of 1970's rock and prefer the classic oldies. I listen to about anything other than rap, though.
My favorite foods would probably be Mexican, Chinese and Italian.
Right now I'm on a crock pot kick trying new recipes.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Peanut Butter Cups
Preference 4R (Dark Auburn) and i'm worth it!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Right now I spend a lot of time thinking about the perspectives and perceptions of abused and otherwise emotionally disabled kids. How can a middle class white woman best serve the needs of kids who are usually too angry or too broken to function in society?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
As an Improv performer, I sometimes perform on Friday night.
I belong to a woman's volunteer group here in town and I can always find them at a local watering hole on Friday night for happy hour.
Depending on the season, I will be at the pool or enjoying a roaring fire in the fireplace.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I live frugally.
If I don't have the cash to buy it, I usually don't.
You should message me if
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I would love to have a message from a man who is wanting to appreciate and adore a woman who has left drama and negativity behind. Let's have some fun!