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45 M Glastonbury, CT

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Last Online
Today – 7:47am
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Catholicism, and somewhat serious about it
Graduated from Ph.D program
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids
Has cats
English (Fluently), Italian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm a native Long Islander who is growing new roots here in central CT - transplanted here in 2002 after several years living in Ann Arbor, MI (what a great town). I am looking for a companion for which we seek mutual respect, and avoid negativity; someone who is more concerned with our mutual happiness, rather than being "right"; someone who is both forgiving, and yet demanding; someone who is generally mature and responsible, but also can let go and get a little wild.

You are a kind, fun-loving girl, with a touch of class, but just as happy in jeans and a tee-shirt. My ultimate goal is to find a soul-mate, this is something to be discovered over time. Eventually, I want to grow into a well balanced relationship, both of us grateful to have found each other.

Chemistry and physical attraction are important. For me, physical attraction is not solely based on looks; a smile and a positive attitude go a LONG way for me. I would much prefer a girl next door with a positive attitude, over a high maintenance and/or negative individual. I would enjoy the company of a confident individual, not afraid to speak her mind, but not so as to be abrasive.

As for myself, people generally describe me as kind, intelligent, likable, and a "regular guy". I strive to eliminate conflict, and I'm quite empathetic. I feel I do a good job of understanding someone's viewpoint even if I disagree. A family-oriented man, I maintain 50/50 physical custody of my children and consider myself an involved father. I maintain close ties with my family on Long Island - and I'm also fortunate to have maintain relationships with my relatives in Italy.

With all the hopes of finding that one special person, I won't be offended if you decide I'm just not the guy for you. We can walk away our separate ways, no one better than the other. Point is: you should feel comfortable taking a chance with me -- otherwise it's an opportunity lost by not giving it a shot.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm an engineer in the aerospace field, and I raise my two kids (son 11 and daughter 9) half time (shared 50/50 physical custody). During my time off, I like to ride on my motorcycle, often without any particular destination in mind, visiting places I've not been before. I also hold a private pilot license, though that hobby is currently in a holding pattern.
I’m really good at
Seeing someone else's point of view.
Raising my two kids.
Math, science (perhaps boring for some, but a turn on for others)
Reasonably mechanically capable (cars, home, yard, etc).
The first things people usually notice about me
are my eyes. I also tend to get a lot of comments about my dimples. After a bit of conversation, people tend to see me as a genuinely nice guy.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Italian food (grew up around great cooking)
Other ethnic food.
Nice piece of steak (preferably a filet), medium-rare.
A good barbecue, a nice pulled pork sandwich works well. For that matter, I know a nice little hole-in-the-wall that makes a great Jamaican jerk pork sandwich... Yum!

Most recent movie that I really loved: 'the Hangover'. I'll get into romantic comedies: loved 'Love Actually', including an occasional subtitled film, 'il Postino' and 'Cinema Paradiso' come to mind. Some lesser known movies: independent films 'Little Miss Sunshine' and 'the Brother's McMullen'. 'Robroy' (epic Scottish highlands, Liam Neeson, and Jessica Lange).

I'm a classic rock fan, from the more mellow Eagles and Fleetwood Mac, to heavier classic British rock: Led Zeppelin, the Who, the Rolling Stones, etc. I enjoy classic southern rock as well. I enjoy going out listening to a good live band.

As much as I love getting immersed in a good book, it's been a while. The last couple of month's, I have 'the kite runner' on my night-table, I need to get off my ... and start reading it...
The six things I could never do without
Italian heritage
Cell phone (kind of sad?!)
Love (holding my breath....)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Maintaining a stable home
Raising my children
What am I going to do for enjoyment today
Where are 'you'?
On a typical Friday night I am
I prefer a night out strolling with good company in a village/town/city. Not heavy into the bar scene, but I do have a couple of watering holes where I like to meet up with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
...hmm, I'll get back to this one...
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 35–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you find me attractive not only physically, but also for 'who' I am (at least as much that can superficially gleaned off of an online profile!).