Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
i am friendly, loving, caring, funny, and honest. acc...sn't
something that attracts boy or girls to court me. rather, its a
charisma which attracts people to mingle and be friends with me.
due to my charisma, i have a wide range of friends from those in
the adolescent years to adulthood. among the people in my...lowes
me to design buildings. i had desired to be a doctor but i'm on a
different track-- being a lawyer. i want to be
an international lawyer
someday. have i mentioned that i also
love to paint and sing?
I am cool, confident, and caring indian
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
i am a bit of a philosopher in life and always see the best in real
people. I have a boundless sense of humour, a deep love for
education, and an even deeper love for creation as the timeless
([obsessed artist]). The artist in me has always been so very
strong, and it seems that this has been my calling all along. No
matter what the struggle, I always find myself returning home to
that one thing that makes me happy where all else seems to erode
away with the passing of time ...
I have learned that life is all about experience... we are all here
with the same terms and goals... we are in it together come what
may. I have also learned that when you hang on too tight to what
passes, it hurts where it does not need to... so I move forward no
matter what with the fullest heart for this life... I just want to
smile and have fun being here!
... they are beautiful caring beings and I refuse to
believe that past relationships should change my feelings on that
one. Although I am looking for someone like me... someone who loves
others as much as themselves... someone who is boundless and
real... someone that I can believe in as much as myself, I realize
that I need to be accepting of who other people are naturally as
well even if we do not fit together. There is no good or bad to
me... there just is what there is and that is more than enough for
me :) I will never fully understand why people can not just be
naturally thankful for the moment of one another's company even if
it does not last forever... perhaps a thousand years of human
conditioning is to blame for that one! Lol... expectation breeds
disappointment... so why expect... just live in the now rather than
the illusion of a future that may or may not come to pass... it is
so much simpler than stressing about what if... lol!
Well, if I never find that someone in this life who is the other
side of our coin, then I will have fun looking... and still meet
amazing people along the way. I have an eternity to find that
special someone... like a lock and key we will fit... and I am in
no hurry whatsoever.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Everything that I put my mind to... absolutely no limitations
here... What I do not know I learn... quickly...
Funny thing... there is nothing here asking me what I am not good
at... hmmmm... do I dare... yeah, I do:
I am not good at negatives... I don't like
yelling or messes
... I like cleanliness because the other says
way too much about a person and I don't like feeling the infliction
of judgement towards others... and most importantly, I do not like
being controlled... trust is something that is given of free will
not taken or forced... we either do or we do not... the in between
is not healthy for anyone... I am not willing to "put my mind" into
something like that, so I suppose I was a bit off... I do have
boundaries in that area of life...
I suppose that is why I choose to live alone... I have never found
that "perfect" roommate... ROFL... awe well... alone is not so bad
he's really, really good at laughing. :)
The first things people usually notice about me
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I am very funny 99% of the time about things, such as, these online
dating sights! I always said, " I would never do that!" Only
because a person can never be too sure about who they are really
talking to. But a friend of mine talked me into signing up and I am
really very glad I done it! I have met some very interesting people
on here. I have also found out just how much fun you can have
talking to complete strangers! I've already made some changes that
was unexpected!! LOL I am also the type of man that likes to read
the newspapers every day, !! But I am not really crazy, just
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I was a voracious reader when I was younger, then I... do war
films. It's bad enough there are wars, I don't want to watch a
movie about it! Music, yes. Must have music... comfort food),
pasta, thai anything, carpaccio, squeaky green beans, cold sprouts
(as long as they aren't overcooked), mashed tomatoe, mashed
potatoes, the odd... dont like (and it is a small list) Grilled
tomatoes (rethinking this one, I had one at the weekend and it
wasnt too bad) Turkish delight :sick: Not overly keen on crab or
lamb I cannot/do not eat... the heads or legs off things before I
can eat them. I have never tried mussels or snails, nor do I have
any desire to.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
so for the last time i am going to write on here, i'm giving it one
more month and i am officially retiring myself from the dating
game. because that is just what it is a big game to everyone.
did i stutter when
i said Honesty is key in any relationship???
you cannot build a relationship on sex, or lies. its just not going
to work. why is it that people think that they have to lie about
themselves - and for the pettiest of reasons? how does this make me
want to still be with you?
Piece or advice: if a man asks you ladies a question, please please
do not lie - especially if its something that you dont need to lie
about. Lying about trivial shit just doesnt make you look good. it
makes me think "wait... if she is going to lie about something so
trivial, what is going to stop him when the big stuff comes
i CANNOT build a relationship on dishonesty. everything i have said
here is the truth.
You know i am not asking for perfection
. I'm asking for
someone to try to represent themselves on here as best as they
think about it this way, if you lie to someone and they fall for
you - then do you think the love will survive if they cant trust
you or if they find out about all the little lies???
sigh.. i am just tired - it seems that women are the same all over
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
1) Understanding and
2) Complete Honesty and Realism... Just give it to me straight and
let me handle my own feelings... don't try to control them or be
unaccepting of them... just let me be...
3) Cleanliness and
... don't do well in a chaotic environment...
4) My personal time and space... if you need me then ask, but
please accept my need for space if I am not able to be there all of
the time... I do not hang around if I have nothing positive to
give... so I disappear for a recharge... I need Acceptance
Resistance... if we work together we work, but if we don't we won't
5) Invention and Creativity... the spice of a great
6) My country and how can i make this earth a place for all to
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Sometimes when I'm bored I'll browse Yahoo Answers and look for the
really stupid questions and make snarky comments.
It's a fun hobby
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Clean House has taken over TV. We rarely watch any beyond
Intervention and the occasional science show or cartoon so it's not
such a big deal but it's got us talking about the things we own
that we love, like, want to replace, etc.
Frankly, we've really only got two things we'd keep at all costs:
the 356 year old gold coin that was tikka's greatgreatgrandfather's
and my copy of Five watches that my mom special ordered as a
Christmas present. The beetle cutting board from Jaunpurr
It would be difficult to give up my farm but I just had an
opportunity to buy great equipments so I could grow and process
more often and bring gifts for others instead. It's obviously not a
huge priority right now (but it would be if I were rich).
Excepting my hypoallergenic down alternative comforter and the
items above, I'd jump on the chance to replace everything else in
the house. Everything, regardless of sentiment.
What about you?
You should message me if
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If your a dynamic woman or working for the law, you have your foot
in the door. i have a major thing for cops/FBI/CIA officials. That
is only the foot though. You need to be kind, caring, adventurous,
sexy, not scared to get dirty, etc. To keep up woth me you will
have to be athletic. I am one fast moving man with a lot of goals
to complete. I also perfer someone who is intelligent. and doesn't
smoke or drink to much. the party life comes second for me. I like
to go out to a club and dance the night away, but hiking in
uncharterd woods is even cooler. So if any of this is similar to
you, text me. I would love to hear from you
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