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28 M Jakarta, Indonesia

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 8:43am
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Chinese (Poorly), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I've got masses of energy, I'm always looking for new experiences and trying to challenge myself. I love to travel, party, pray, meet new people, and learn anything. Despite living on the other side of the world, my family means everything to me. I try to go back and visit whenever I can, and eventually see myself moving back closer to them.

I'm originally from the US (Virginia, more specifically), but I've lived in 7 different countries now, which has been awesome. Right now, I'm spending a few months shuttling back and forth between Perth and Jakarta. Australians tend to tell me they're terrified of Jakarta, but I'd actually put it very squarely in my list of top 10 cities in the world (and definitely at the top of my list of most underrated cities in the world). Come visit sometime - I'll show you around!

I am looking for love, but mainly I'm just enjoying the journey - which is how all the best things in my life have come about.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a management consultant, which is both horrendously tough and spectacularly fun. On the side, I'm trying to see as much of the world as I can.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Not sweating the small things, talking my way through tricky situations, reading people, and karaoke (OK - maybe I just enjoy it more than I'm good at it).
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My dry sense of irony- it can be difficult to know if I'm being serious or not. Sometimes I'm not sure...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I'll just pick one for each, because nobody wants to read through one of those lists of like 158 movies just to try to divine what the person they're reading about is actually like.

Book: India After Gandhi
Movie: Paris is Burning
Show: RuPaul's Drag Race
Music: Swedish House Mafia
Food: Five Guys
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. My passport
2. All the people in my life
3. The Economist
4. Dance music
5. My flag (I've lived and travelled everywhere, but sue me for still loving my home)
6. Brunch
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The world, why people fight, religion, dance music, what beach to go to next, how to optimise my client's businesses (I mean it's true - my job takes up quite a bit of time), what I'm going to do with my life when I grow up (ahem...)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At a club, dancing until dawn
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You've got a lot of energy, you're always up for a challenge, you like trying new things, and you like thinking and talking about the world.

...AND you want to actually meet me in person. My view is that in 15 minutes over a coffee/beer, you learn a lot more about someone than 15 months over whatsapp, so I'm a strong fan of the former. Plus, I've got plenty of internet friends - what I want now is dates.