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66 M Spicer, MN

I’m looking for

  • Straight girls only
  • Ages 45–60
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

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5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, French (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Gee, this is kinda like a resume? I worked in the Food industry for over 40 yrs. I was a salesman and a damn good one. But the unexpected passing of my fiancee @ age 57.( she was a huge fan of all animals....she wanted her African Gray cremated with her,but her sister couldnt bear to do it and now has the bird) ...well....I retired early but still keep active with the things listed in "what I am doing with my life". I am a very aggressive man....meaning I get to the point right away.....( in sales its necessary!!) but I am a pretty soft touch....I would love to get the closeness, warmth of a lovely lady back in my life.....I think we all value the closeness that happens with someone you love....... Last winter when I was doing my bit as Santa.....I watched the couples as they walked down the mall together.....very few held hands....let alone walk arm in arm or an arm around torsos.....I will never and never did take the woman beside me for is too precious and short to not care deeply and completely.....agreed??
What I’m doing with my life
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After my fiancee passed away in 2011, i was mired in self doubts and loathing, the passage of time has tipped my outlook to "get busy living..."(part of a quote from Shawshank) I have a part time job with the Meals on Wheels folks, that i just love, I also play the Murder Mystery host at my local B&B. I garden and just finished an "above ground" flower box 4ftX4x24ft that I planted almost 400 tulips, unfortunately , varmints ate 90% of them before i put up a fence!! I also have gone into beekeeping....I had two hives last year, one colony didnt make it this winter, so this year I will have 3 hives as I ordered two queens/brood assuming I would lose both hives... .. i DONT hunt, fish or camp!( isn't that a shock!)! My idea of camping is at the STPaul Hotel(one of my fave places, maybe I could take u for dinner there? :) ) I do love the outdoors and own about 5 acres of ground, I have 49 Oak trees on my "home" lot . I do support the idea of hunting and fishing though. Oh, and I have recently started some golfing again.. My golf bud is 83 y/o and I can't always beat him!!! Lol
I’m really good at
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Well, I think I am a great cook, my son says I am a soup God :)
The first things people usually notice about me
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Well,women like my butt :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Ok, in order listed, Pride and Prejudice, Sherlock Holmes, ( I own about 60 classics by Easton Press, in hardcover) fave movie of all time, Casablanca, Last Vegas, Plays/Stage--Mamma Mia(saw inToronto) Miss Saigon(saw on Broadway as well as Phantom) TV, Foyle 's War , Big Bang Theory,Longmire, Downton Abbey(I am the only one in my neighborhood that doesn't have Dish or cable) ,music, IlDivo, Roy Orbison, NeilDiamond, ABBA, Judy Collins,Roy Clark,Billy Joel, Bellamy bros...(my Father was from TN, so I grew up country), to name a few, like a lot of foods, but tend to "hit" low carbs as I am a type 2 diabetic(which also means I am active( I have a recumbent bike,to keep my A1c down) I also, at my age have a tendency to avoid beef, I eat steak maybe 4-6 times a year. At my last check up my A1C was 6.2 , down from 7.2(now 6.1 as of 12/28/2103)when I first started keeping track and I have lost 8lbs since my last physical in 12/12....woo hooooo I have been told by both men and women that I look younger than my age :)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The love of a great woman, everything else, is well.......... just fluff
.....but......maybe I should count my children, especially my grand daughter, Grace and my newest granddaughter Madelyn b.3/24/2013 :)..... Oh, and I don't care what anyone thinks otherwise ....... The greatest invention..... Ever..... Indoor plumbing
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Women and their vanity. I believe it was the ultimate demise of my fiancee. I also contemplate my life as a retiree and where it leads me. I also, find it highly amusing, that 99% of the women on this site think they cannot live without coffee, chocolate, wine and not necessarily in that order, hmm makes me wonder if ----- well never mind! It is a fun observation though:) I also, note with some amazement how so many,if not all, women on this site fawn on and on about how great a mom/grandma they are and -----yet, not one comment (despite in some cases many years with their spouse, before a divorce ) how great a WIFE/PARTNER they were!! Why is that?? ( since I wrote the previous comment, I have learned that too many men blew a relationship with what seems like a Goddess cuz of booze, drugs, infidelity or a combo of all 3... I find it amazing that men are that stupid .... !!! Well, maybe not...sigh) I also believe that chivalry should still exist....I should be kicked in the butt..should I not remember this..... !!!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I am usually at the VFW ( I was elected Chaplain of the men's auxiliary 4/16)running the meat raffle and trivia contest and home by 8pm!! I lead the patrons in the bar in a salute to our veterans, and will sing Happy Birthday to anyone who will admit they have one that night. My father named me for his bros KIA in WW2, when I was a kid it did not mean much, but it sure does now......
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I usually sleep in flannels during cold weather :) I also AM Santa Claus , and (i do grow my beard out ( starting late Sept)and shave it off 12/26) have for 13 years now, it is a responsibility I do not take lightly, so sssshhh don't tell any kids!!! I NEVER drink soda/ pop and have not for years.... I also, buy bottled water(I have seen how its made) 10-5gallon jugs at a time to drink at home and carry an insulated jug in my car most of the time. AND .....I am retired so I can and will travel to meet the woman of my dreams.... :) Oh, and I am a rabid nonsmoker....dont even think about it....and I am not "into" tats .... No matter how small......
And.... For the ladies that think writing is an art form and decry the "shortness" of today's literary style...I say get over it.. Times change .... I mean really... I love Jane Austen .... But NO one converses that way now!!
You should message me if
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You love my smile :) also, if you like a brutally honest man, i pull no punches. I am a fiscal conservative( the govt. pisses away too much $$$$) BUT a social liberal, I have friends of color, am pro choice, and i believe the LBGT folks are entitled to their happiness, if u think differently, fine, i can respect that, but long term, we might not get along. I also think flowers are the way to a woman's heart :) and do not bother to contact me if you have a Facebook(rarely use it is ok) acct or your cell never leaves your hand..... Why? Cuz I want a relationship with an adult not a kid