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ineedgirl

39 / M / straight / Single

Calgary, Alberta, Canada

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 7" (1.70m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Catholicism but not too serious about it
Sign
Aquarius but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Science / Tech / Engineering
Income
$250,000–$500,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Dislikes dogs and Dislikes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Indonesian (Okay), Arabic (Poorly)

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I am curious, open minded, and reserved.

My Self-Summary

Hello. Here’s a bit about me.

My main interests are movies, theater, art, music, international news, science, photography, travelling, different cultures. For fitness I enjoy hiking, running and cycling.

I am a bit of a non-conformist. I think that is what makes me different than most of the people I know. I don’t pay much attention to trends, and in fact I am kind-of repelled by what the mainstream does. The fact that I prefer working overseas is an example.

I’m interested in lots of different kinds of music, but my favorites are 1990’s alternative rock and dance, 1980’s pop and metal, disco. I also like a bit of jazz, and 1970’s stuff.

I am rather reserved socially. I go out to bars and parties from time to time, but I’m definitely not the “life of the party” type of person. Really, I prefer talking one on one with people I know.

About what I look like, I am 5'7" (170cm) tall, 150lbs (70 kg) in weight, German/Irish heritage, my hair color is reddish/brown or auburn. Most people think I look younger than my age.

What I’m doing with my life

I am a mechanical engineer, and I have worked overseas in Libya and Indonesia. I prefer working overseas actually. I am in the … ahemmm … oil and gas industry (aka The Evil Empire). Eventually, I would like to switch to a different industry, like alternative energy. Incidentally, I have three citizenships; Canadian, U.S. and Irish.

I’m really good at

This is a tough one. I use to be good at school, but that was a while back now. I think I am good at my job. But I imagine there are people that are better than me also. I guess I am pretty good at staying informed on a variety of subjects, in particular international news and sciences. People have said I am a good listener, I suppose there is some truth to that.

The first things people usually notice about me

Usually people think I look younger than my age.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Favorite book: Hmmm ... The Great Gatsby

Movie: Easy one. It's a tie between Lawrence of Arabia and Blade Runner.

Music: Hmmm ... I guess Nirvana, but it's a bit boring now. I also like Fu Manchu.

Food: I'm really in to Lebanese food lately, I like schwarmas, baklava, ayran. I also like the Arabic couscous with lamb sauce. I should also mention Pizza, of course.

The six things I could never do without

Internet access
Movies
My camera
Music
Travelling
The sight of a beautiful women (Ok I admit this is sappy.)

I spend a lot of time thinking about

What I will do with the rest of my life.

On a typical Friday night I am

Going to a movie, or watching a DVD.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

My apartment is a mess. (Ok, not very priviate I admit.)

You should message me if

You want to be treated special.