Realist - Dreamer
Cynic - Idealist
Serious - Silly
Strong - Vulnerable
Proud - Modest
Stubborn - Flexible
Uncompromising - Tolerant
Detached - Emotional
Stressed - Relaxed
...

Does not add up? It does. How, you will need to find out for yourself.

Making something out of it and enjoying the pleasures along the way.

Listening and talking. Learning. Enjoying the simple things in life. Keeping a cool head.
Cooking, sports (well, reasonably good), work, sleeping, math, languages.

Books: Asimov, Clarke, Wilde, Orwell. A good novel will also do. Apart from this magazines and thematic books or anything else I get my hands on, preferably politics, economics, history, science.

Movies: story and good characters are important. Shawshank Redemption, das Leben der Anderen, Persepolis, Fight Club, Memento, Godfather, Scarface, Star Wars, Forrest Gump, Kung-fu Panda, Shrek, Quentin Tarantino movies, Christopher Nolan movies, ...

TV: HIMYR (though it's getting weaker), Scrubs, 2.5 Men, Game of Thrones, BSG, Futurama, B5, Simpsons (when they were still good), Dexter. Sounds like a lot, but I don't watch that much. I like ongoing story arcs.

Music: Rock, Pop, Alternative. I am a 90s guy.

Food: most things. I am also happy with a tasty meat-less option. Food is great!

Good friends.
Good food.
Good food for thought.
Good occupation
Women :)
Freedom of speech

My role in the world and the good and bad decisions I have taken ( and shall still take).
Things I want to cook.
Anything and everything.

One of the following:
- Out for a drink with friends
- Reading
- Watching a movie
Depends on my mood.

Opennesss requires trust. No 'private' things on this level yet.

you are curious.