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56 F San Francisco, CA

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 54–63
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 3:32pm
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I am warm and very companionable, but introverted. I'm always ready to laugh. I think the joys of long-time love are underrated.

I have two grown children. Their father died when they were pretty young. I raised them alone and they're very wonderful, I think.

I'm always for the underdog.

I love luscious, sweet-scented old roses, peonies, and most every other flower in the world.

I miss being near salty water warm enough to swim in.

I am deeply moved by how beautiful and moving is every sign of the changing seasons. Especially the light.

The only two sort-of rules I was given as a child: never cross a picket line, and never turn your back on the ocean. As rules go, they're pretty useful.
What I’m doing with my life
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I work p/t and do a lot of volunteer work for a local organization that helps children in the Middle East.
I’m really good at
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Arranging flowers
Not being a zealot
The first things people usually notice about me
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Maybe my swinging gait.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: I Saw Ramallah by Mourid Barghouti is my favorite book (if I had a gun to my head and had to pick); West With the Night by Beryl Markham; The House of Mirth; most any P.G. Wodehouse; The Heart is a Lonely Hunter; Corruptions of Empire by Alexander Cockburn; nearly any Iris Murdoch; historian Ilan Pappe; all Janet Malcolm; Erich Maria Remarque, although I've never read his most famous one, All Quiet on the Western Front. I've tried but it's so devastating I can't continue; Vivian Gornick.

Movies: mostly I love old movie stars. I love pre-code movies: they make women the protagonists and deal with sex, love, and loss in an adult way.

But here are some favorite movies: Fritz Lang's "M"; Nights of Cabiria; Harold and Maude; Casablanca; Gaslight; All About Eve; Bringing Up Baby; Blue Sky; the Iranian film, A Separation; 5 Broken Cameras; the Palestinian film from last year, Omar, which was just wonderful.

Music: early pre-Baroque; Baroque; classical; Marcel Khalife; Leonard Cohen; Radiohead, Bon Iver; Richard Thompson; The Cure; Mazzy Star, Patsy Cline, Frank Sinatra, Waylon Jennings, Mike Patton, Neil Young, DJ Shadow; so many more. Yes I like hip hop and country. I love being turned on to new music, and I love hearing live music.

Food: I love yummy, spicy, healthy food of all kinds; I don't like uninteresting or junky food.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
naps and large bodies of water
I do appreciate hot water
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The quandary of loving the Bay Area but missing sexy warm summer nights and lightning bugs.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Sometimes in, sometimes out. I like to goof around most any time.
You should message me if
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You are fun and noble.