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inkeemoon

57 Oakland, CA Woman

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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 54–63
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 1:27pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Sign
Aries
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Other
Status
Single
Type
Monogamous
Offspring
Has kids
Pets
Has dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Okay)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am warm and very companionable, introverted, and always ready to laugh.

I think the joy of long-time love is underrated.

I have two grown children. I was happily married to their father, who died when they were pretty young. They're all on their own now, but we're very close.

I'm always for the underdog.

I love luscious, sweet-scented old roses and peonies, and most every other flower in the world.

I love salty water warm enough to swim in, and nights warm enough to wear sleeveless dresses.

I am moved by every sign of the changing seasons.

I'm compelled by justice struggles here and everywhere in the world.

Life-long lover of high jinks.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work p/t and do a lot of volunteer work for a local organization that helps children in the Middle East. If I could, I'd travel a whole lot.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Dancing
Arranging flowers
Appreciating story-tellers
Supporting resistance
Not being a zealot
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Maybe my swinging gait.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books
I Saw Ramallah by Mourid Barghouti is my favorite book; West With the Night by Beryl Markham; The House of Mirth by Edith Wharton; most any P.G. Wodehouse; various collections of essays by Alexander Cockburn; Iris Murdoch; historian Ilan Pappe; Erich Maria Remarque; Vivian Gornick; Janet Malcolm

Movies

I love pre-code movies, mostly because they focus on the female characters, and treat sex, love, and loss in an insightful way.

Here are a few favorite movies:
Fritz Lang's "M"; Nights of Cabiria; Harold and Maude; Casablanca; The Gay Divorcee; Gaslight; All About Eve; Blue Sky; the Iranian film, 'A Separation'; the Palestinian feature film, 'Omar'

..and anything with Ingrid Bergman, and most anything with Barbara Stanwyck, Claudette Colbert, Bette Davis, Jimmy Stewart, Cary Grant, Fred Astaire.

Music

Early music; Baroque; classical. Leonard Cohen; Radiohead; Richard Thompson; The Cure; Mazzy Star, Patsy Cline, Frank Sinatra, Waylon Jennings, Mike Patton, Neil Young, DJ Shadow; so many more.

I love being turned on to new music, and I adore going to live music.

Food: I love yummy, spicy, healthy food of all kinds; I don't like uninteresting or junky food.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
music
naps
living close to a large body of water
a bathtub
birdsong
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how lucky for me that this wretched, beautiful world has poets and musicians making sense of it
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Sometimes in, sometimes out. I like to goof around most any time.
You should message me if
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You're very sweet and smart, and wouldn't dream of crossing a picket line.