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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 30-45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Sep 20
5' 8" (1.73m)
Body Type
Christianity but it’s not important
Working on Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm back after some time off from OkCupid. I'm a smart guy with a good sense of humor who loves following/ talking about politics as well as making people laugh. I'm pretty social and gregarious but sometimes need alone time to decompress. I love to travel especially to other countries. I'm looking for something serious, but I'm more interested in finding the right guy vs. rushing into something just to be with any guy.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a marketer and have been doing this for the last 10 years and really enjoy it. I just started a part-time master's program at Columbia and also work with a couple education non-profits outside of work.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Debating politics, making people laugh (quick wit), being loyal, and getting stuff done.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
my glasses, salt & pepper beard, intellect (I hope), and sense of humor
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I love non-fiction (Game Change, etc.); I'm a news junkie, so I'm checking news online multiple times a day (, google news, etc.); I like top 40 and R&B (new & old - so I like artists like Beyoncé & John Legend to Minnie Riperton [Maya Rudolph's mom] & Teena Marie), and I like everything from sushi to Italian to a great burger. I am a bit of a reality tv show junkie to offset me being a new junkie (I can do high and low), so I like Real Housewives and RuPaul's Drag Race. I also love Downton Abbey, Homeland, and Girls.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- family
- friends
- iPhone
- iPad (so I can read my nytimes app and watch some tv shows & movies)
- pizza
- high thread count sheets
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
- politics
- how to end educational inequity
- traveling (thinking about where I've been or where I want to go)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either grabbing dinner and drinks with friends or staying in and relaxing after a long week.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I bought a subscription to the Wall Street Journal (don't worry I'm still a progressive)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you like to laugh and think critically.
If you have drive and passion.
If you want to leave the world a better place than you found it.