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37 M Adams, NJ

My Details

Last Online
Aug 28
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Catholicism, and somewhat serious about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Working on university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs
English, French (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I have just discovered that the brief intro I had written here a few weeks ago was rejected, because I didn't fill out the stupid three words. Now I feel stupid.

Who, me? Just looking to meet some new people, in the hopes of adding a few friends to my life. I try to learn as many new things about the world as I can, so whatever it is you like, as long as you can discuss it intelligently and unpretentiously -- a depressingly rare combo, but let's swing for the fences -- I'm probably interested in hearing about it. I don't enjoy talking about myself, so it'll take me a while to decide what to say . . . but if you don't feel like waiting, why don't you say hi?


One little rant to get started: I take issue with a couple of the little boxes OKCupid has assigned to me, so there are a couple things I'd like to clarify.

1) I'm a little mortified that I'm to be advertized as "Less well-mannered." I'm usually a very polite person -- if anything, over-formal with strangers. I tend to speak very directly to the issues when I'm upset about something. I can understand how a person who's used to being handled very gently might see that as bluntness, and find it off-putting. But my manners? Those are excellent.

2) Actually, I'm very much a planner. What I'm not is the kind of guy who's committed to an itinerary, like we're in a tour group. Sometimes, the things you imagine you'd like doing turn out to be pretty sucky once you're doing them. When that happens, I like to have some alternatives prepared, so I'm not stuck gritting my teeth to endure somethng that turns out to be an occasion of misery. I'm a great planner -- but when new information comes in, I'm always ready to change plans. :,)

I am devilish, probing, and broad-minded
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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When I see other guys in their thirties who have profiles on "social networking" sites, I always assume that they're creepy. That's why I'm very self-conscious about writing this profile.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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. . . you're reasonably smart, and can hold up your end of the conversation

. . . you understand how discussions differ from arguments, and arguments from fights

. . . you're a little bit spunky. Alot spunky is OK, too.