I am happy and solvent. Own house hair and teeth.
I do not smoke, take drugs, gamble or drink much. I try to keep fit. Health is important.
So let me tell you about the last 5 years. Then you'll have a better understanding of me.
I was made redundant. This was the second time a big corporation had decided that it needed to restructure and change my career path. Enough was enough. Time to take my life into my own hands.
I was unhappy in my marriage at the time. We had drifted apart and the silences were killing. If you can't talk to your partner about things there is something very wrong. So I left, amicably.
The next few years brought a lot of experimentation. Some of it worked, some didn't. It's always good to try though, in my book.
I volunteered with a service to help young people who were going astray or who were victims. That was stressful but really fulfilling.
I became far less money and status orientated and far more concerned with love, kindness and happiness. If you think that makes me a failure please walk on by. There is a lot more to life than "stuff".
Right now I am single. I hope that I can find a match out there who also shares my values and becomes my soulmate. But I can wait. I will not "settle" for somebody who is a reasonable match and risk losing the one in a million.
For anyone interested in Myers- Briggs profile types I am ENFP and a champion. Only 3% of the population are so I don't think you know what I'm really like ;-)