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45 Brooklyn, NY Man


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 26-46
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 7:44pm
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Average build
Judaism but it’s not important
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat), Spanish (Somewhat), Hebrew (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
It's been a good year for me, professionally--lots of exciting things have happened. In general, I feel grateful for what life has offered me: emotional and financial stability, good friends, the ability to set my own schedule and to pursue my passions.

A little about me: I'm enthusiastic and opinionated, a culture junkie who enjoys new experiences. I play well with others. I like to roam around the planet for inspiration. I work for myself and do reasonably well. I love New York and Brooklyn especially--I grew up here and I'll never get sick of it. I enjoy writing. My story collection, Margins of Tolerance, came out last year, and recently I started freelancing for the WSJ.

I can always use a few more cool people in my life, although the right one is what I'm really looking for. I think I'm ready for the next chapter.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Living it, as well as I can. Learning-- through experience, but also through patience. I work for myself as a private tutor, which allows me the time to write and travel, often enough.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Many things, I hope. Some good: conversing, socializing, traveling, opining, giving advice. Some perhaps not so good: wasting time, eating things that are bad for me, watching competition reality TV. The other things you'll have to discover for yourself...
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
you tell me
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Lordy, that's a long list.

Books: let's go with authors: Bolano. Murakami. McCullers. Fitzgerald. Chabon. J. Egan. J. Diaz. And a bunch of my friends, who are authors like me. (Don't worry if you don't recognize these last names, but big plus if you do)

Movies: Classics from All About Eve to A Place in the Sun to Indie films and foreign films and even some Hollywood crap (the good crap). Tarantino, the Coen Brothers, Almodovar, Miranda July, Before Sunrise, etc.

TV: Lately: Portlandia and American Horror Story and Girls. Stewart and Colbert. Breaking Bad and Mad Men. Runway. Drag Race. The Wire. MSNBC for news.

Music: I have about 65GB of music. I can't do this category. Don't make me. Lots of alternative/rock/electronica/dance.

Food: I LOVE food! Too much. Sushi to Pizza to Pho to Babaghanouj to Ample Hills Salted crack caramel ice cream to...I could go on for a long time...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I could do without this category. It's too "dating site" for me.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
politics and how f#@$ed up the world is and how I should be doing nice things like volunteering and then I feel guilty because I'm just thinking about it but not doing enough. Then I think about masturbating.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out to dinner. Maybe a loungey bar afterwards- preferably one with some killer cocktails. I might be away for the weekend (or longer), in any of a number of possible places. Or I might just stay home and queue something on Netflix.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Now what would be the fun in admitting it on here? Wouldn't you prefer I share my secrets with you and not with everyone else casually browsing through my profile?
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you like my profile, of course. I tend to like (younger) guys who are sweet and enthusiastic and social and smart and funny in a smart way. They like to go out and explore but they also like to just relax and chill at home. I don't like inflexible, judgmental or difficult people. Flakiness and ambivalence turn me off. Directness and sincerity are hot.