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My self-summary Propose an edit

Hey all. I'm a young professional living in downtown Sacramento. I enjoy long walks on the beach. Well, it's true :) I'm a Christian guy looking for a Christian woman to get to know better.

What I'm doing with my life Propose an edit

I work full time at a small tech company in downtown Sacramento. I'm taking a couple classes per semester at the same time to finish up my degree at CSUS. I'm also a musician and play in my church's worship band from time to time and sing in the guys small group on occasion.

I'm really good at Propose an edit

My job.
Piano. I play guitar, bass, and sing too, but I've been playing the piano since I was 5, so it has a few years on everything else.
Mildly good at:
Rock Band (yes, all the instruments :) )
Wakeboarding
Cooking
Reading women (okay, maybe this is a stretch)

The first thing(s) people usually notice about me Propose an edit

My dashing good looks. Haha. Maybe my nerdiness. I also have pretty prevalent curly hair. When I chipped my front tooth a while back, it was my smile. Piece of advice: if you ever chip your front tooth, start out every conversation as "So, I chipped my front tooth..." It'll get the awkwardness out of the way. Otherwise they're staring at it the whole time while trying not to let you notice they're staring at it. Trust me on this one.
In general I'm pretty laid back, but can definitely get animated when things get exciting.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food Propose an edit

Currently I'm reading the Wheel of Time series. I love movies, especially ones that make you think. I really like TV crime dramas. My musical tastes range across the board (being a musician), but I am a big fan of big band jazz and swing. None of that smooth jazz crap. That's really the only music I can't stand. Don't get me started. But, if you like it, I might be able to overlook that personality flaw. ;) Pizza is always good. I've recently gotten into Italian cooking, so I have to put Italian food on the list. And, of course, cookies and cream ice cream is *amazing*.

The six things I could never do without Propose an edit

God
(the rest in no particular order)
Instruments
The Internet
Weekend trips
Friends/Family
Utility

I spend a lot of time thinking about Propose an edit

Work. School. Faith. Which house do I want to purchase. When is the next raid in WoW. What taste should I experience next become more cultured. What organization(s) should get my donations. Who's going to move into my new place. How does that guy on the piano in the "Play me off, Johnny!" skit play so incredibly fast. How should I modify my exercise routine. What can I do to make myself better for the person I end up with.

On a typical Friday night I am Propose an edit

Hanging out with friends, out to dinner somewhere or seeing a movie. Sometimes (less often) I'll be on a weekend trip; I love getting away and camping, but I don't do it nearly often enough. And sometimes I spend a night in if I'm wiped from the week.

The most private thing I'm willing to admit here Propose an edit

I'm mildly hemophobic. Runs in the family. (Yeah, who would have thought a phobia could be biological.) Don't worry; I still enjoy the occasional horror flick.

You should message me if Propose an edit

You're looking for a fun, confident Christian guy and you're strong in your faith as well.

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insid58: 61 questions

Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 10" (1.77m).
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity and very serious about it
Sign
Taurus but it doesn't matter
Education
Job
Executive / Management
Income
N/A
Kids
Likes children
Pets
N/A
Languages
English

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