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53 M Richmond, VA

My Details

Last Online
Jul 21
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
When drinking
Judaism, and laughing about it
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from Ph.D program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), French (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Well, I am a kind person, social, playful, athletic, adventurous, open minded, and somewhat intellectual. There is of course much more to say/write, but at the moment, I'm kind of beat and my dog's whining for me to take her out. What can I say? She's got me under her thumb/paw.
What I’m doing with my life
Good question. Let's see...I'm a professor but I also own a few properties that I manage, or mis-manage, depending on the day. I also love to ski (snow and water), surf, hike, and play my drums. I should get into a band again. And I love my family and friends, and would like to spend more time with them. I pride myself in making people laugh; in fact I got a good chuckle out of Catherine Zeta-Jones (on a recent trip to Panama, where I said to her husband: "Aren't you Kirk's boy?"). And I take good care of my dog. I love to travel...have been to almost 60 countries and have worked in twelve or so. I believe in cross-cultural and language skills; I speak Spanish and French pretty fluently and am big on international affairs/current events.
I’m really good at
Skiing; playing the fool; swearing; languages; reciting movie lines. Decent drummer. Pretty good surfer at times.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Clearly this is not an exhaustive list, as my memory just ain't that efficient, but some faves (lately) include the following:

Music: Ray Lamontagne, Pat Metheny, Neil Young, The Band, Led Zeppelin, Yarn, My Morning Jacket, Son Volt, Paula Cole, Christian McBride, Antonio Sanchez (on drums)...more to follow.

Books/Magazines: The Atlantic, The New Yorker, Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas (Hunter S. Thompson), The Corrections (Franzen), Remains of the Day (Ishiguro), The Help (Kathryn Stockett), Ecological Imperialism (Alfred Crosby), Omnivore's Dilemma (Michael Pollan), A Confederacy of Dunces (John Kennedy O'Toole), anything by Steinbeck, Mordechai Richler, Milan Kundera, etc. etc.

Movies: anything by the Coen bros., Remains of the Day...many more to follow.

Food: Pizza, Thai, Italian, Greek, Mexican, Cuban, my world famous burgers and pasta, good chicken wings (e.g. at Commercial Taphouse in RIC), etc. etc.
The six things I could never do without
Smart people; skiing; surfing; my dog Mabel; good red wine; my mother.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
a) All the things I still want to do with my life; b) the need to heal the planet and its broken economic systems; c) sex.
On a typical Friday night I am
Howling at the moon.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 32–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
you are so inclined and think we may share some interests, etc.