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28 M Philadelphia, PA

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5′ 11″ (1.81m)
Body Type
Full figured
Mostly vegetarian
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
Obligatory statement about hating self description. Now that that's out of the way....sometimes sarcastic. Occasionally didactic, though I struggle to avoid it. I don't know everything and won't pretend I do. I have an emotional relationship with the world around me and I'm eternally trying to improve myself.

I am very honest and open about my feelings and I like the people in my life to be as well. This DOES NOT MEAN RUDE OR CRUEL! People love to disguise meanness as "honesty". I try to be accepting, tolerant, and forgiving as much as possible. And apparently I use oxford commas...

Learning is fun, maybe necessary. Empathy is unavoidable. I'm an introvert but I love people.

I do not appreciate nor will I adhere to gender roles and stereotypes.

Apparently everybody on this site is either "laid back" or "easy going". That can't be true. There can't possibly be that many relaxed people in the world. Nothing would get done. That being said, I'm a pretty agreeable guy.


I would have to say I'm a bit of a romantic in both the classical and colloquial sense. Might as well get it out there.
What I’m doing with my life
Spending hours upon hours in a cube. Yes, cube. They're no longer referred to as cubicles. It's an HR thing. Trying to write something I can read without cringing. In a perfect world I'd be making a living from my fiction. In the meantime I'm experiencing things.
And......Endlessly goofing off. Procrastinating. Sleeping when my cats allow it. Droppin some serious eaves everywhere I go.
I’m really good at
Empathy, for better or worse. Reading people...and books. Scootering. Sleeping. Obsessing over tasks until their completion and then not caring about the result and moving on to the next project. Making scented candles. Chopping wood. Im really good at being bad at the guitar. I can sometimes be good with words. What I'm best at though is the ability to multitask while daydreaming.
The first things people usually notice about me
Hmm....not sure as people rarely comment on my physical traits but I'd have to say probably my hair or glasses
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books – Lots 'o novels and poetry. Will discuss in person.

Movies – Wes Anderson, Godard, Fellini, those Coens!, Lars Von Trier, David Lynch and other random films here and there. I can enjoy just about anything!

Shows – I’m a sucker for certain cartoons: Futurama, the Simpsons, that sort of thing. Nature, Nova, Antiques Roadshow.

Music – Way way way too much to pick a small list.

Food – edibles. Of various kinds.
The six things I could never do without
Sadly, my cell phone. NPR and its affiliated podcasts. My pets. The occasional Indian meal. Notebooks/pens. If I had to I could live without my scooter but it would not be pleasant.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Broad youth cultural trends and their root causes. Philosophy and its pretensions. The future. The past (though I wish I didn't). Travel. I fantasize about moving away a lot. Also about getting a book deal. I daydream quite a bit.
On a typical Friday night I am
It varies. Sometimes I'm out. Sometimes I'm home, playing board games or watching movies. Usually laughing about something stupid. Sometimes making up possible sequels to classic novels or hanging out with cats.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm scared of roller coasters...

And I have no idea what pinterest is.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 23–33
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You exist, I'm always interested in meeting new people. But please be a kind and tolerant person.

If you want someone to write you a silly song or knit you a scarf.