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insurgobmxmma

36 San Francisco, CA Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–49
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Nov 15
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Black, Pacific Islander
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Religion
Catholicism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Other
Income
$50,000–$60,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hawaiian/Black. Hard working, focused, loyal, genuine. Like a book, most judge me based on my cover and never take the time to read the chapters that make up the story. I am a very direct and blunt man, no harm intended, but some may be thrown off by my direct nature.

College grad, was a pro BMXER for years and also a UPS driver in SF for almost 8 yrs.. Now I teach spin class at 24Hr Fitness and fight MMA. Born and raised in San Francisco, went to college in Nor*Cal and So*Cal. Open-minded, easy going, mature, fun, adventurous, passionate, thoughtful, and spontaneous. Raised in the projects in San Francisco's Fillmore area and the streets of the Mission District, currently live in the Noe Valley area of the city, but feel at home in the woods/mountains, with nature surrounding me. City boy with a country mindset. Far from materialistic! I enjoy surfing, get excited when I go off-roading, enjoy riding the Harley when I find time/weather allows me to, love to go backpacking, look forward to every winter so I can snowboard. I take solo trips to art galleries, think I am a solid cook, and when stressed I take long drives with an unknown destination.

I do not have kids, but do not mind if you do. I respect a single mother as my mom was one for many years before finding a great man in my step-dad. I do want kids though and starting to think my "clock is ticking". I do not drink beside a glass of wine on certain holidays, though I do not mind others who drink.. just not heavy. I dream of the wife and kids, but will not settle for just a cute face with no ambition. I want to have a family with a woman I plan to spend the rest of my life with.. Eventually. Chivalry is not dead in my world.. I still walk on the outside of the sidewalk, open doors, etc..
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Was in the Army reserves during college. I gave up my career as a UPS driver in SF, to follow my dream of being a pro MMA Athlete and own a MMA gym. Currently I teach a spin class and train pro MMA fighters, law enforcement agencies and private personal security firms. I fight MMA professionally 1-3 times a year when I can get the free time to actually do fight prep for myself and not for my students. I do plan to fight until I am 40, then open an MMA Gym in Trinity, Mendocino, Yuba or Nevada County.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Living my life thru my dreams with no regrets, regardless if I fail or succeed.. At least I tried.
Giving babies High-Fives.
Dating women taller then myself.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I do not look my age or that I do not look like the "cage-fighter type". I also hear upon meeting me that my voice is really deep and throws some off as they assume I am 6ft something, but am really 5ft 9in.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
-Books.. anything by Tom Clancey, the secret, and ummm.. 50 Shades was vanilla and def not how that lifestyle works!
-Movies.. outsiders, enemy at the gates, davinci code, angels and demons, paid in full, notebook, last samurai, city of god/city of men, the vow, green zone, zero dark thirty, usual suspects, layercake, boondock saints, snatch.. any Guy Ritchie movie.
-Shows.. sons of anarchy, devils ride, amazing race, ultimate fighter, game of thrones, chopped, hells kitchen, ultimate soldier, vikings, walking dead, hatfields and mccoys, house of cards.
-Music.. queen, good charlotte, green day, dream theater, metallica, robin thicke, fabolous, jadakiss, alicia keyes, mariah carey, usher, marvin gaye, jodeci, kenny chesney, trey songz, rick ross, led zepplin, kendric lamar.
-Food.. moms home cooking, chinese, mexican, hawaiian, filipino (illicano style), korean, southern soul food, ice cream and I love breakfast foods.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Family/true friends, food/water, goals, career/job, toothbrush/toothpaste, life
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
-How to avoid traffic on the freeway or in the city.
-Life and everything that goes along with it.. Positive and negative. Think a lot about the future and how my present will mark the course for it.
-Buying a house in Grass Valley, outside of Laytonville or near Hayfork one day. One day opening a mma gym in downtown Roseville, somewhere in Ukiah/Willits area or in Hayfork.
-Will I ever find a wife and have kids. As in, am I just not relationship material, am I just best when keeping it casual?
-Why the heck did I make a profile on an online dating site?!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Babysitting a kid in my family or at home. If it's nice and I am not too tired, then I will take a motorcycle ride or take a drive up to the Sacramento/Elk Grove area from Frisco. Head to the local BMX track to get a few laps in.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am usually commando unless at the gym or on the Harley.
I actually like country music and own more then one pair of Cowboy boots!
I listen to NPR in the morning.
None of my friends or family know I have an online dating profile.. I am very skeptical about this online dating thing.
I am sucker for high heels, pretty eyes and a gorgeous smile.
I may have been involved in the BDSM/KINK/FETISH lifestyle in my early 20's as a Dominant.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
-You respect a man with a firm handshake.
-You give a great massage.
-I visited your profile more then once, as I suck at being the first to send a message, but am great at responding!
-If you are genuinely interested in what I have to say, and if you find yourself curious to know more about me. Not looking for an online friend or a text buddy.. So please plan on meeting me in person soon after making contact with me. I am old school, I rather get to know you in person, not through an electronic device.

-PLEASE KNOW WHAT YOU WANT BEFORE CONTACTING ME.. Just having an idea isn't what I seek from a partner. I want a woman who knows exactly what she wants, not a girl still trying to figure it out. No promises or expectations, just an honest and mature chance is all I seek.

-Just know..
I also realize that sometimes the physical can lead to something so lasting and sincere in the end, without stress of commitment in the beginning. I can be open to that if you really catch my attention, though that type of casual relationship is not truly what I seek in the end.
I will read your profile and the answers to your questions before I reply. Match % does not mean much to me though.
Lastly, if you read my whole profile, you def earned major brownie points! Detailed I def am nor am I one for games/bs.
Good luck..