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36 M San Francisco, CA

I’m looking for

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  • Ages 18–49
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 11:01am
Black, Pacific Islander
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Catholicism, but not too serious about it
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Not the online hookup type, so the length of my profile will probably cross many off the list because I assume most do not read these in full.. Props if you get through mine!

Hawaiian/Black. Hard working, focused, loyal, genuine. Like a book, most judge me based on my cover and never take the time to read the chapters that make up the story. I am a very direct and blunt man, no harm intended, but some may be thrown off by my direct nature. Oh, I tend to be long-winded and explain things in detail, two-three dif ways! Hopefully you make it thru this profile..

College grad, was a pro BMXER for years and also a UPS driver in SF for almost 8 yrs.. Now I teach spin class at 24Hr Fitness and fight MMA. Born and raised in San Francisco, went to college in Nor*Cal and So*Cal. Open-minded, easy going, mature, fun, adventurous, passionate, thoughtful, and spontaneous. Raised in the projects in San Francisco's Fillmore area and the streets of the Mission District, currently live in the Noe Valley area of the city, but feel at home in the woods/mountains, with nature surrounding me. City boy with a country mindset. Supercross/Motocross, Car Racing, Warriors, Giants, Sharks, Niners and Sabercats games/events, are a normal thing for me. Far from materialistic! I enjoy surfing, get excited when I go off-roading, enjoy riding the Harley when I find time/weather allows me to, love to go backpacking, look forward to every winter so I can snowboard, I take solo trips to art galleries, think I am a solid cook, and when stressed I take long drives with an unknown destination. I love to travel and have been to 7 countries and more then 35 of our states.

I do not have kids, but do not mind if you do. I respect a single mother as my mom was one for many years before finding a great man in my step-dad. I do want kids though and starting to think my "clock is ticking" as I will be 36 in Oct of this year, 2014. I do not drink beside a glass of wine on certain holidays, though I do not mind others who drink.. just not heavy. I dream of the wife and kids, but wont settle for just a cute face and no ambition. I want to have a family with a woman I plan to spend the rest of my life with.. a hopeless romantic? Yes, but unlike most, I still hold onto that dream. Chivalry is not dead in my world.. I still walk on the outside of the sidewalk, open doors, etc..
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I gave up my career as a UPS driver in SF, to follow my dream of being a pro mma fighter and own an mma gym.. Well injuries happened. Now I teach a spin class and train pro mma fighters, law enforcement agencies and private personal security firms. I fight mma professionally 1-5 times a year when I can get the free time to actually do fight prep for myself and not for my students. Still deciding if I should head back into the Army with my Option40 contract.

Update: Dec 2013.. I recently went back to being a "full-time" Pro MMA Fighter, earlier this year, and plan to fight until I am 40, then open an MMA Gym in Trinity, Mendocino, Yuba or Nevada County. My next fight was to be Feb 15th in Sacramento under the WFC, but recently signed with a bigger organization and am now fighting in Quebec City, Canada in April.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Living my life thru my dreams with no regrets, regardless if I fail or succeed.. At least I tried.
Giving babies High-Fives.
Dating women taller then myself.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I do not look my age or that I do not "look like the cage-fighter type". I also hear that my voice is really deep and throws some off as they assume I am 6ft something, but am really 5ft 9in.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books.. anything by Tom Clancey, the secret, and ummm.. 50 Shades was vanilla and def not how that lifestyle works!
Movies.. outsiders, enemy at the gates, davinci code, angels and demons, paid in full, notebook, last samurai, city of god/city of men, the vow, green zone, zero dark thirty, usual suspects, layercake, boondock saints, snatch.. any Guy Ritchie movie.
Shows.. sons of anarchy, devils ride, amazing race, the wire, ultimate fighter, game of thrones, chopped, hells kitchen, ultimate soldier, vikings, arrested development, burn notice, walking dead, hatfields and mccoys, house of cards.
Music.. queen, good charlotte, green day, dream theater, metallica, robin thicke, fabolous, jadakiss, yukmouth, alicia keyes, mariah carey, usher, marvin gaye, jodeci, kenny chesney, trey songz, rick ross, led zepplin, kendric lamar.
Food.. moms home cooking, chinese, mexican, hawaiian, filipino (illicano style), korean, southern soul food, ice cream and I love breakfast foods.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Family/true friends, food/water, goals, job, toothbrush, life
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
-How to avoid traffic on the freeway or in the city.
-Life and everything that goes along with it.. Positive and negative. Think a lot about the future and how my present will mark the course for it.
-Buying a house in Grass Valley or near Hayfork one day, one day opening a mma gym in downtown Roseville or in Hayfork.
-If I should go back into the ARMY before I turn 36 and use my option 40.
-Will I ever find a wife and have kids, am I just not relationship material or am I just best when keeping it casual?
-Does this site even work?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Babysitting a kid in my family or at home.. if its nice and I am not too tired then I will take a motorcycle ride or take a drive up to the Sacramento/Elk Grove area from Frisco. Or head to the local BMX track to get a few laps in. Wish I snuggled with a special lady though.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I live within the 1% motorcycle community.
I am usually commando unless at the gym or on the Harley.
I actually like country music and own more then one pair of Cowboy boots!
I listen to NPR in the morning.
None of my friends or family know I have an online dating profile.
I am sucker for high heels, pretty eyes and a gorgeous smile.
I may have been a BDSM/KINK/FETISH adult film actor in my early 20s while in college (over 15yrs ago).
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
-I am very skeptical about this on-line dating thing. If you can be 110% real from hello, I am searching for you.
-You respect a man with a firm handshake.
-You give a great massage.
-You know what I mean when I say I am looking for the Bonny to my Clyde.
-I visited your profile more then once, as I suck at being the first to send a message, but am great at responding! And/or if I marked you as a "favorite with 5 stars".
-Reply if you are interested in what I have to say, and if you find yourself curious to know more about me. Not looking for an online friend or a text buddy.. So please plan on meeting me in person soon after making contact with me. I am old school, I rather get to know you in person, not thru an electronic device. -Please know what you are looking for, let me say that one more time.. PLEASE KNOW WHAT YOU WANT BEFORE CONTACTING ME.. Just having an idea isn't what I seek from a partner. I want a woman who knows exactly what she wants, not a girl still trying to figure it out. No promises or expectations, just an honest and mature chance is all I seek.

-Just know..
I also realize that sometimes the physical can lead to something so lasting and sincere in the end, without stress of commitment in the beginning. I can be open to that if you really catch my attention, though that type of casual relationship is not truly what I seek in the end.
I will read your profile and the answers to your questions before I reply, if you contact me. Match % does not mean much to me, but what I read, does matter.
Lastly, I am long-winded and if you read my whole profile, you def earned major brownie points! Detailed I def am (I am ex-military and not one for games or bs) ;-)