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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 40-54
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Online now!
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
6' 2" (1.88m)
Body Type
Buddhism and laughing about it
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I want a deep, lasting, trusting, passionate connection with a woman who wants me to care for her and wants to care for me in return. International travel. Outdoor adventures. Armchair philosophy. Giggles at the absurd. Time with friends and family. Quiet time at home. Conversation. Listening to each other. Building a life together.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I absolutely love my work. I am a consultant and coach, helping people in business and industry bring the human side into their work.

In the past I've worked on five continents in environments ranging from hotel conference rooms to work sites in the subarctic and the steppes of Asia, but recently my work has been in the US.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Choosing a good hoppy beer, engaging in conversation, finding things to laugh about, helping people grow, enjoying people.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
For some it's my eyes, others my laugh, and for others the fact that I am a "grownup" who still drives a Tonka truck.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I have pretty broad tastes. This is just a sampling.
Movies: The Incredibles, Casablanca, Bend it Like Beckham
TV: Mad Men, 30 Rock, NCIS, Game of Thrones, Band of Brothers
Books: Iain M Banks, Jonah Lehrer, Terry Pratchett, Niall Ferguson, Steven Pinker
Food: Barbecue, Sushi, Burgers, Fish & Chips, Chinese
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Friends & family
Good food & drink
Engaging conversation
Enlivening work
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to live a joyful life. Philosophy, brain science, psychology, sociology. Why squirrels do what they do. People I love. Where I might go on my next adventure.

And, since I've been on OKCupid:
Why are so many of the questions so over-simplified or bizarrely polarized:
"Which shade of gray is your favorite? A. Black B. White C. I hate all colors."
For most, I feel like some explanation is necessary. And for some I just can't find an answer I can work with.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Down at the pub.
A movie.
Sharing a quiet evening at home.