A bit about me: People tell me I have a huge heart, though I sometimes lead with my intellect. My work affords me a pretty flexible lifestyle, and when I'm not out at a client site I tend to be fairly laid-back. I love adventures and conversation, but have no desire to join the X-games or win arguments with anyone. I ride motorcycles, scuba dive, watch movies, read books, and hang out at Oskar Blues. I prefer being with people to being alone, but I can make my own fun and am responsible for my own happiness. People say I can be intense, but I never notice it. I've practiced martial arts for many years and I go on zen retreats from time to time, but I am focused on having a great life, not some spiritual path of deprivation and sacrifice. :-) I am committed to growth and practice, but as my zen teacher says, "If you have lost your sense of humor, you have surely lost your way."
A bit about you: You are generally happy and easy-going, but you can still get things done when needed. You're self-sufficient and capable, but you can also share the controls with a partner. You know yourself well enough to know there's still a lot to learn. You are confident and strong enough to see the strength in vulnerability. You are willing to share me with my friends, and share your friends with me. You are interested in understanding the world, the culture, and the people around you and you'd like a partner to talk it all over with. There's a lot more, of course, but that might be a good start.
If you see yourself in any of that, I'd love to connect.
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