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happy_green_tree

32 Fountain Valley, CA Man

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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Online now!
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
Asian
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on Ph.D program
Job
Education
Status
Single
Type
Monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Speaks
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I’m a caring, deep, and sensitive person with a dry sense of humor.

I teach philosophy at a local university. Besides this career passion, I enjoy writing, meeting new people, coffee shops and bars, working out, walking at the beach or a park, opera/classical, fiction and biographies, and personal development.

I'm looking to meet new people, for dating or friendship. I don't have many gay male friends who live locally and am definitely interesting in making some. For dating, I’m attracted to men who are caring and physically affectionate.

I mostly agree with the following quote from, surprisingly, a medical textbook, and I try to live up to it most of the time in my interactions with everyone. I'm looking for someone who feels warm to this quote as well...

"I want to be present with you exactly as you are. I am not asking you to change in any way. While I may have preferences about how I might want you to be, I am committed to letting go of those preferences in favor of letting you be exactly the way you are. You may change from one moment to the next, and I am committed to being fully present with you on a moment-to-moment basis and to feel and accept however much you change. No matter what happens in this moment, I am determined to let you be as you are with an open and sincere heart."

I hope to hear from you. :)
What I’m doing with my life
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writing and teaching
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
work/life balance
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Aristotle
Italian food
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. A mother's love
2. Allergy shots
3. The beach
4. Nuclear power
5. Sunny weather
6. John Varvatos
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
what's the next step for me
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
dinner with a friend
You should message me if
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you look for the good in others