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31 M Fountain Valley, CA

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Working on Ph.D program
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My self-summary
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I'm a great guy who is looking to fall in love with another great guy. My heart is open and I believe in romance. Along the way, I'm also open to new friends and just meeting new people in general - whatever unfolds naturally.

I teach philosophy at a local university. If you're attracted to men with open minds and unique perspectives on life, then I'm your man. :)

I enjoy working out, the beach, opera and classical music, reading fiction, and spending time with friends and family.

I'm pretty cheerful, sensitive, and unassuming. I have a lot to offer in a relationship, including understanding, compassion, affection, and humor. I don't have a rigid list of "must haves" that I judge men by. I'm interested in meeting different types of men.

Thanks for reading and I hope to hear from you!

P.S. If you're currently a student of mine, please don't message me. The last thing I need is any perception of a sex scandal! Besides, I don’t raise grades in exchange for sexual favors. I only accept hard cash.
What I’m doing with my life
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Writing, teaching, investing for the future, and looking for love!
I’m really good at
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I'm really good at getting up in the morning without hesitation!
The first things people usually notice about me
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Hopefully that I'm friendly.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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American and Italian food.

One of my favorites movies is "As Good As It Gets."

Love Victor Hugo novels.

Love Puccini.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. The beach
2. Allergy shots
3. Lemons
4. A future to look forward to
5. Osso bucco
6. Jokes
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
why there aren't enough hours in the day for me to get done all I want to get done.

I also think a lot about how to break up routine in life. I tend to get stuck in routines, which eventually gets boring.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
at home, working, or at dinner with a friend
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm not great at keeping up to date with technology, the news, or popular culture. So I often don't know what other people are talking about. I just smile and nod. :)
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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you'd like to meet in person!