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34 Seattle, WA Man


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 23–39
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Apr 15
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body type
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Entertainment / Media
Rather not say
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them

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My self-summary
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I strive for a vibrant life of understated success: a challenging and rewarding job, large and diverse groups of friends, and a foundation of positivity and kindness toward myself and others. When you meet me, you'll observe I'm a career-oriented person, but after we chat for a while you'll understand that I'm most fulfilled by deep personal interactions and artistic experiences.

My job splits my time between Seattle and New York City, which is actually turning out to be a really fulfilling balance.
What I’m doing with my life
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The primary long-term goal is surrounding myself with an amazing community of people that inspire me, make me laugh, help me learn and think deeply about life, and that work to sustain the things and people they care about.

Love my job in publishing, but always on the lookout for the next big opportunity. I've already been through a few career phases.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Understanding why people think and feel they way they do. Listening. Others might say "singing."
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I listen a lot. I'm not really shy or introverted, but I like to hear people voice their ideas fully or to hear all of a story, so I don't often interrupt.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Just read: The Assassination of Margaret Thatcher
Just went to: an all Bach program NYC Ballet, Iolanta/Bluebeard's Castle at The Met
Just listened to: Meghan Trainor's album

Regular reading: The Guardian

Select favorites:
Book: The Sea (Banville)
Opera: Così fan tutte (Mozart)
Pop Album: Teenage Dream (Katy Perry)
Short story: The Kreutzer Sonata (Tolstoy)
Movies: Nobody Knows (Koreeda), Caché (Haneke)
Musical: The Book of Mormon (Trey Parker)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Time outside everyday, music, my phone, seeing my family multiple times per year, live performances of theatre and opera, and empathy.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why people do what they do, the future of society, urban planning, the future of books and media, what will improve my friends' lives, how people find time for TV.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At dinner, a play/symphony/opera, a friend's house, a movie, or out of town. Maybe drinks, maybe karaoke.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'll admit pretty much anything in person.
You should message me if
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If something I've included in my profile resonates with you.