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30 • Brooklyn, NY • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 18–37
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Online now!
- 5′ 10″ (1.78m)
- Body type
- Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from university
- Art / Music / Writing
- Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
- Likes dogs and likes cats
- English (Okay), Spanish (Poorly), French (Poorly)
I am generally shy and a little awkward around new people. Sometimes people translate this as being cold or aloof. I assure you I am anything but cold or aloof. I do not do well with first impressions.
Movies (again, too many to name, here are some makers): David Lynch, Richard Kern, Christopher Nolan, Stan Brakhage, Kenneth Anger, Hollis Frampton, Ken Jacobs, Vito Acconci, Jean-Luc Godard, Frederico Fellini, Bruce Nauman, Werner Herzog, Ross McLaren, Michelangelo Antonioni, François Truffaut, Paul Sharits, Lars von Trier...
Music: The Magnetic Fields, Gatekeeper...
--Okay, I am getting bored with this section, so I'll just say that I am heavily into the abstract, conceptual or experimental, whether it be film, writings, music, whatever it is I'll be drawn to it. I also really connect with visceral or aesthetically raw pieces of art. That's not to say that the intellectual does not have a place in my heart, but I will admit that I do find most works of that sort to be too academic and sometimes even pretentious for my tastes. If there aren't engaging or cohesive visuals to accompany an idea that appeals strictly to the logical mind, then I will simply lose interest...or maybe I'm just an idiot, I don't know.
Food: I'll try anything once. Even live monkey brains (People really do eat them, I swear! It's a delicacy in Indonesia.).
So there is that.
Odds are, being honest in this particular fashion most likely will not work in my favor.
Call me old fashioned, but please let us converse like people used to 15 years ago.
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