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intheblacklodge

28 / M / straight / Single

Baltimore, Maryland

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Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 9" (1.75m).
Body Type
A little extra
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Casual sex
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Sign
Aries and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
$80,000–$100,000
Kids
Doesn’t want children
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently)

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I am intelligent, nerdy, and passionate.

My Self-Summary

My adjectives make me sound awesome! And humble too. Where to begin? The biggest thing to know about me is that I become intensely geeky about whatever I get interested in, and that does extend to relationships as well! At the moment though, I'm a massive film nerd, a huge music snob, and a budding cocktail geek. Yes, I will go on about any of those at length. Just hit me if it gets to be too much. I love every type of art with a passion, and will vigorously pursue as much knowledge about any subject as I can get.

What I’m doing with my life

I'm trying to make a living as an audio engineer, a prospect that seems to get increasingly difficult lately. I've fallen mainly into the world of doing TV, which can either be pretty exciting, or excruciatingly boring, depending on the situation.

On a less professional level, I'm trying to start a cocktail blog and break into that online community, I'm working as hard as I can to make a dent in my Netflix queue, and I'm trying to familiarize myself with the days worth of music in my iTunes library that I've never listened to.

I’m really good at

The two things I'm probably the best at are audio and music, considering they're what I went to college for and what I do professionally. I'm really strong at math and at finding patterns in pretty much everything. And if quoting Futurama and Monty Python can count, I'm really good at those too.

I'll also make you the best martini you've ever had.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books: The Illuminatus! Trilogy, A Clockwork Orange, Jitterbug Perfume

Movies: Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas, The Big Lebowski, Schizopolis, Primer, Synechdoce, NY, The Third Man, Solaris, Evil Dead, Lost Highway, Network

Music: Sunset Rubdown, Animal Collective, Deerhoof, Pink Floyd, King Crimson, David Bowie, The Beatles, Of Montreal, pretty much anything arty

Food: SUSHI! And anything else, the more unusual the better.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Pretty much everything. I think way too much. Wish I could give it a rest sometimes, but that only makes it worse.

You should message me if

You're a huge nerd
You like someone who is a huge nerd
You love movies, music, and art
You're a foodie
You know what my screen name is a reference to