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inthenow617

63 / M / Straight / Single

Ballston Lake, New York

His Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 4:17am
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 5″ (1.65m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other
Sign
Education
Graduated from Ph.D program
Job
Education / Academia
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Has kids
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
My friends would describe me as energetic, loving, fun to be around, and most importantly as someone that is always striving to grow personally and spiritually. I have a real thirst more knowledge and believe that the primary meaning of life is growth.

I love to travel, play golf, and walk and keep myself in excellent shape. I am a College Professor and therefore I have the time to play lots of golf in the warm weather and do a lot of traveling during my school breaks. These activities keep me physically fit.

The activities that I like to do for fun include: traveling, playing golf, quiet evenings at home with a lover, dancing, walking, reading, and learning alone and with a partner.

I am very affectionate and love spending evenings cuddling and watching a DVD or holding hands and taking a walk. I love all kinds of music and love to dance--but have never been formally trained --I dance freestyle--just allowing the music to take me where it will. Vapor is a fun place to dance on Friday and Saturday nights.

I am willing to spend time talking or emailing before actually meeting. However, I have found two way communication such as talking on the phone or actually meeting is much better because there is less chance of a misunderstanding. I believe that meeting for a walk is a great way to spend the first date.

I am really looking for a life partner--someone that is serious about working on having a loving and healthy relationship. I am looking for a partner in all respects--a truly interdependent relationship. I love to travel and would prefer someone that has some time and the means to travel with me.

My ideal match lives each moment in the now as fully as is possible. I am a firm believer that a positive attitude creates a positive life, therefore I surround myself with positive people. I like women that smile a lot. I am looking for someone that has a zeal and love of life and wants to experience it fully. It is important that my partner keeps herself physically fit enough to be attractive and enjoy being active.

It would be nice if my partner enjoys travel, dancing and going to concerts and plays. I also want someone that is affectionate and passionate about all of life--including in the bedroom. It is important that my match be both financially and emotionally stable. I am looking for a true partnership. I do not want to become dependent on my partner in any way nor do I want her to be dependent on my in any way. I believe that healthy relationships include individual and shared activities. I like someone that enjoys spending considerable time with me but also allows for separate interests. Accordingly, I would hope that we would share at least some of my life’s passions.
What I’m doing with my life
I am enjoying each day and looking for someone to enjoy each day with.
I’m really good at
accepting someone for who they are--I have learned that the only person I can change is me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I enjoy comedies and musicals. I love to attend concerts and plays. I enjoy all kinds of music and love to dance--primarily freestyle.
The six things I could never do without
Love, family, friends,health, golf, and travel
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I spend most of my time thinking about the moment I am in and enjoying it to the fullest--I always attempt to be fully present.
On a typical Friday night I am
I like to either go out dancing--I love Vapor
or I could stay at home and watch a movie.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I enjoy learning and growing. I am always willing to look at myself and I am looking for someone who is also willing to look at herself.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 49–62
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
we have common values and some common interests (I do not believe that a couple have to share all interests, in fact, it is probably better when each partner has a few separate interests.