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inthestruggle

25 / M / Straight / Single

Vineland, New Jersey

His Details

Last Online
Today – 4:50pm
Ethnicity
Pacific Islander, White, Other
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Sign
Cancer but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Writer. Farmer. Message kid.

I live a dual life. Sort of like Batman, but without the violence and the tights. I farm in the spring, summer and early fall on an organic farm in South Jersey, and I spend the late fall and winter writing screenplays and hammering out short stories in New York.

I'm half Filipino, a quarter Italian and a quarter German. It's an exciting mix. Needless to say, there are lots of hand gestures and loud speaking complexities in my genes.

I work. It's very important to me, whether it's writing or farming. Work carries me through the dark times and heals me through the really dark times.

But when the day is done I relax like most everyone else, enjoying good food, hanging out with good people, and watching movies and baseball games. Normal and pedestrian? Yes. Fun as hell? Good googly moogly yes. Can't handle that? Best move on, Mademoiselle.
What I’m doing with my life
Growing tasty vegetables and writing the next great American screenplay. I get up early in the morning, take my vitamins and get to work. I love what I do and I have a hard-on for life. I'd have it no other way.
I’m really good at
Storytelling. Making sacrifices. Sticking to a schedule. Listening. Keeping balance.
The first things people usually notice about me
The hair. Not quite as great as Giorgio Tsoukalos. But it's getting there.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: The Stranger. A Clockwork Orange. War of Art. Moby Dick. Conquest of America.

Movies: Ghostbusters. Mutiny on the Bounty (1935). The Big Lebowski. Guns of Navarone. The Exorcist.

Shows: Sports or documentaries. I dig podcasts too. Joe Rogan Experience. The Church of What's Happening Now. Duncan Trussell Family Hour. You Made It Weird with Pete Holmes.

Music: Whatever I'm in the mood for.

Food: Anything. I'm always in the mood.
The six things I could never do without
Macbook. Tractor. Truck. Coffee. Cannabis. A pen.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Whether it's the weed or the lack thereof.
On a typical Friday night I am
Who the hell knows.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm a Philly sports fan. I learned to boo before I learned to speak. You've been warned.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 22–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating