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35 Asheville, NC Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 1:26pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Has dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), C++ (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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"Fuck you if you love a car for its paint job
Love you if you love a car for the road trips"
What I’m doing with my life
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calvinball. The only rule is no day should ever be played the same way twice.
I’m really good at
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picnics and pillow forts.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I stole your gram's style and her pearls look lovely draped around my neck.

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The first thing people notice about me is my clothes are wild and crazy. That is just my clothes. For the most part I'm quite. Especially around new people. I get to know new people slowly. I'm an introvert and I spend most of my time by myself or in small groups of close friends. My pics are accurate but they tend to trick people into expecting a loud personality which is not true.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I never read this section on other people's profile.

•The Pleasure of Finding Things Out •What Do You Care What Other People Think •Surely You're Joking •Ethical Slut •Opening Up •More Than Two •Tao of Pooh •Sex At Dawn •Dangerous Lives of Altar Boys •Catch Me if You Can •The Body •The Beach •Lord of the Flies •Short History of Nearly Everything •Confessions of a Dangerous Mind

•Ethiopian •Mediterranean •Russian •Mexican •Tex-Mex •spicy •spicy •SPICY

•Jan Svankmajer •Louie •Flight of the Conchords •Mighty Boosh •Breaking Bad •Deadwood •I Claudius •Mad Men •QI •Carnivale •Shield

•Watsky •Macklemore •Devil Makes Three •Hot Chip •Die Antwoord •MIA •Peaches

•Spit •Scategories •Speed Scrabble •Pictionary •Balderdash •Trivia •Mud Wrestling •You Don't Know Jack

•A little Night Music •Much Ado About Nothing •Oscar •Don Giavoni •Faust •Marriage of Figaro •Carmen •Salome
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
adventures, romance, freaks, ideas, passion and 2 good pillows.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
what hasn't been done before.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
•road trips •thrift stores •dumpster diving •wine making •building •dreaming •hiking •wild harvesting •picnics •trespassing •swimming •camping •discovering •games, •programming •designing •stargazing •cooking •chilling with goats •tennis •waterfalls •campfires •rafts •water balloons •exploring •blowing everything off for a few laughs and an adventure •blowing shit up
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I haven't grown up yet.
You should message me if
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you have a bad joke or you want to wish happy Thursday to a stranger.

I just found a fancy 3d kite. Want to take it and picnic to the windiest hill we can find?

•I don't date addicts. That includes smokers.
•No religion. That includes astrology. Sorry Asheville.
•If you want children I'm not your guy.. I've had a vasectomy so this isn't a reversible decision.
•I'm poly/open. I'm looking for both short and long term partners. But no long term monogamy. I am currently 100% single.
•I want to meet you in person, right away. I'm not looking for pen pals or platonic friends unless you are a developer, designer or entrepreneur and want to work on a project together. I don't want to get to know you through email.

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